To achieve good results with compliments, it is important to grasp the timing. If the timing is inappropriate, the desired effect will not be achieved, and it may even cause misunderstandings. A woman should praise her husband in a timely manner according to the occasion, environment, and atmosphere. She must not be stingy with words of praise when the praise is appropriate, and do not forcefully praise him when the praise is inappropriate.

So, to master the timing of complimenting your husband, you should master these 5 tips!

First, praise your husband when the relationship is dull

In married life, after a long period of getting along, the aura of the husband will gradually fade away, turning into an ordinary man who snores, has a beer belly, and starts to go bald. During this period, if a woman does not discover some new highlights in her life, she will easily become emotionally alienated, and the two may even become more and more dissatisfied with each other, and eventually turn against each other. Moreover, trivial matters in married life will also polish away a man's self-confidence, especially when his mid-life crisis arrives, his lack of self-confidence will engulf his abilities. This requires a woman to discover the shining points in him and use praise to increase his confidence.

Second, praise your husband when the couple is having a cold war

In a cold war, a woman might as well make her husband laugh with exaggerated compliments, then the atmosphere will relax. After breaking the silence, the next thing to do is to resolve the issue once and for all. Don’t think that compliments can replace all communication steps once and for all. After both people have calmed down, they still need to communicate when they need to communicate, and they still need to apologize when they need to apologize. Only by clarifying the root of the problem can the problem be completely solved.

Third, praise your husband when there is a relationship crisis

Praising at this time will only make people feel false, which may put the relationship between husband and wife in jeopardy and even lead to a breakup. Therefore, when praising your husband during this period, you must pay attention to sincerity and down-to-earthness, and re-establish a trusting relationship between the two parties step by step. A woman can appropriately praise the things her husband has done in the past that touched her very much, and help him recollect the sweetness you once had. In this way, two people will naturally develop a feeling of attachment and reluctance, unwilling to give up the good things they once had.

Fourth, don’t praise your husband when he makes a promise

The future promised by a man is not necessarily the future that will actually come true, but a tomorrow he longs for in his mind, or an illusory blueprint he wants to describe to a woman. Women are mostly emotional, so when they hear beautiful ideas, they will directly think of possible scenes and have a sweet feeling. However, there is still a big gap between the vision and the reality. To turn the drawings into a gorgeous building requires not only reasonable planning, but also hard work, long-term efforts and the belief that you are not afraid of failure. If a woman is very satisfied just by seeing the drawings and praises her husband lavishly, then it will make him develop the habit of laziness and make him only good at making promises but never taking action or practice.

Fifth, don’t praise your husband when he gives him gifts

Gift giving is a magic weapon for men to please women. However, after receiving a gift, a woman cannot blindly praise her husband when she feels elated or even elated. Because without understanding his motivation for giving gifts, blind compliments will only make a woman embarrassed. A man may give gifts because he loves her and wants to make her happy, but he may also give gifts because he has done something wrong and wants to ask his wife for forgiveness.

In short, as a woman, you must know how to praise your husband and be able to seize the opportunity. The language of praise is of course very important, but women should grasp the best time to praise and then praise their husband, which will be more effective.