Sex is not a mechanical exercise, but a loving thing. When having sex, don't be impulsive and violate some sexual taboos as you please. For a long time, a topic that people have been concerned about in their sexual life has always been: how to deal with disharmonious relationships in sexual life? The long-term life practice of human beings has proved that the harmony between anything depends crucially on the differences between them. Difference is eternal, harmony is relative. The harmony of sexual life between husband and wife is closely related to the sexual differences between men and women. The disharmony in sexual life is on the one hand a sexual physiological problem and on the other hand a sexual psychological problem. In clinical medicine, they are mostly reflected in sexual and physiological problems, that is, sexual physiological differences; in daily life, they are mostly reflected in sexual and psychological problems, that is, sexual and psychological differences.

Don’t compare your loved one to others. When two people are affectionate, never make comparisons, such as "You have a very good figure, only a little worse than a certain movie star", "Among the people I know, you are the best"...even if you are sincerely complimenting the other person , if it is of a comparative nature, it can easily cause misunderstandings, making the other person feel that you are thinking of someone else during sex, which will make you feel awkward.

Don’t just focus on sexual intercourse and ignore emotional communication. Sex is inseparable from life and requires a good emotional foundation. If two people do not have any emotional communication and only want to obtain pleasure through sexual stimulation, not only will it be difficult to achieve climax, but they will also doubt each other's purpose and become increasingly repelled by sex.

Don’t be superstitious about pornographic movies. Learning sexual skills or theories from pornography is inherently wrong. Most of the pornographic movies and TV dramas use exaggerated and deductive methods, which can only be used as a spice for sexual life. If they are imitated blindly, it is likely to be counterproductive, reduce sexual desire, and cause sexual frigidity in women.

Never multitask. Even though you are having a romantic relationship with the other person, you still have to look at your phone, watch TV, and even think about working from time to time. When the other person is affectionate, such behavior is easily discovered, which can discourage the other person and even lead to quarrels.

Don't force yourself to do anything, or even force the other person. Some couples reluctantly have sex when one partner is in a bad mood. Not only do they lose the harmony of their sexual life, but they also cause resentment to the partner who is in a bad mood. If this happens repeatedly, it will lead to sexual frigidity in the woman or impotence in the man.

How to give the other party a new feeling in the form of sexual intercourse? This question is quite extreme, but netizens are very interested. It’s not difficult to say, but it’s not easy either. Some people on the Internet boldly suggested that “the best way is to replace someone” from a sexual perspective alone. This involves a very serious issue of social norms, law, and ethics. And if we simply look at sex life itself, it is an effective and good way to frequently adjust the environment, time, and posture of sex life. But some people like to fix it every day for decades, or fix it a few times a week, and some couples are completely random. As long as both husband and wife agree and get used to it, there is nothing wrong with it. Some people like patterns, and some people don't. If you can maintain emotional stability and impulsivity, and promote youthfulness and vitality in your sexual life, the pattern itself is not a matter of principle. The key is the awareness and understanding of "freshness".