As a woman, not only must she know how to cooperate during sex, but she must also know what a man is thinking. More communication can make sex life more harmonious and satisfying.

Husband’s Sexual Psychology: Eight Sexual Hopes

Hope she has an orgasm

Some data show that if a man finds that he cannot bring too much pleasure to a woman, he will feel sad. Even if he can enjoy a rich dinner and watch exciting football, he will not feel happy.

As a woman, your passion and visible pleasure are the most essential things. But if a man doesn't realize it or doesn't take advantage of it, then you will still be very depressed. Say something like, "Everything you do is so wonderful, I don't think I can wait until night comes." This will change the awkward situation and lead him to where you want to go.

Hope she can give a good blowjob

Surprisingly, this factor ranks last. The adjective "good" reminds women not to use their mouths to give men a little sweetness, just like training little beasts in a circus, just like giving candy to children. This is not advisable. Happiness is what we all have in common. The same technique has different effects on different people, and what works for this man may not work for others. Men don’t expect you to hit the mark, but they do want to get close.

I hope she can be passionate about me

"Hopefully she seems to be wholeheartedly for me and really likes what I do." Some men don't seem to care much about "vocal" and "silent" sex. They think the degree of enthusiasm and passion you have for him is Critical. Yes, men want women to be crazy about him. Would he rather believe that it was him who made you wet, who made you moan, rather than something of your own? Effects brought about by sexual fantasies or other situations. As a man, he wants to know what he can do to bring you to your best. Sometimes even an innocuous-sounding word from you can make your sex life feel better.

Most men are unwilling to admit it, but on some issues, even some macho men will consider: Can I really please my partner in bed? However, sometimes the key to the problem is that women can and may pretend to move, rotate, push and pull during sex. Therefore, even the most confident men cannot confirm whether you really like the way he makes love. In fact, the more a woman can be passionate about a man's energy, the more she can reach the limit of pleasure under the guidance of a man.

If you asked a man, "What's your biggest worry in bed?" the answer would be, "Will she actually have an orgasm?" You know? Men do want to pleasure you and care about the climax you both reach.

I hope she has a normal sexual attitude

This factor is important. Sometimes men are surprised to find that women can be as sex-crazy as I am. Some women even come harder than men. According to some women, "Oh my god, I have been thinking about doing this kind of thing all day long." She said that she had this urge when she walked in the door and stepped on the carpet. When things happen, she will be infinitely lingering, making men passionate, and every move will make him feel just right.

A serious and stern-faced woman is definitely not good for sex, and men don’t want to see her being too wild and crazy. Men think that women should have a healthy and normal sexual attitude. The man said, "I hope she can have sex with me with a bit of 'humanity', but that's not entirely the case." Therefore, if a man is timid about sex, the reason lies more in the woman's attitude than the man's. Physiological problems.

I hope she won’t be silent in bed

Nothing increases passion more than expressing yourself appropriately in bed. Even a weak hissing sound is more arousing than making love in silence. Your words must not be full of lust, you must not show off your eloquence at this time, and you must not make a particularly loud sound, as long as it can be heard. , Never say words like "please" when going to bed. Many men say that the sound of a woman's voice makes him feel that sex is so wonderful that it makes them ecstasy at the critical moment and reaches the limit of pleasure. Even if she only made vague sounds with the tip of her tongue.

What words do men most want to hear during non-silent sex? Through some guided Q&A, some men said: "Give me direction." Giving direction doesn't mean saying, "Oh, here, here." It means encouraging him to move forward in you at the right time. It's like being on the road, if you don't want to ask for directions, it's easy to get lost. Being without a sense of direction is a very scary thing in bed. The second type of sound a man wants to hear in bed is your screams or moans. For example, "Love me now" and other touching words. What's interesting is that it's a big taboo in public culture to say: "We are attracted to each other." What men need is not polite compliments, but a more practical "trigger". Women, get a hold of it.

I hope she is comfortable

First, only when you feel comfortable will your sexual relationship with him improve. Women should relax and enjoy it as a delicious treat, which is more beneficial than worrying about your performance.

Second, being comfortable with yourself means "we" are all comfortable. Paying too much attention to your flaws will inevitably lead to a focus on your "own" body rather than on "our" bodies. Covering yourself under the quilt will only make "us" anxious about "our" sexuality, which will actually affect the effect of lovemaking. So don't worry about whether you look perfect in bed. Turning off the lights or not is not that important.

I hope she has a sense of humor too

Men are divided on this issue, those who think it's important and those who ignore it entirely. The former believes that a humorous atmosphere can help alleviate embarrassing situations, and adding jokes can spark the spark of love. It's not a bad thing if you occasionally seem stupid in bed. Let "us" laugh happily together, not at you or at me. How to determine a man's humor ability? He can act with irony, can get along with women happily, and has masculine charm. With such a person, sexual companionship is always a pleasure.

According to the latter, sex is a work (or a dramatic event). For him, sex is a mood, and mood is a very important event, similar to business behavior. He rarely spoke, either in bed or out of bed. In the drama-like passion of love-making, his behavior reminds you of a general going about his official duties. So, as a woman, you tell him there's a difference and you have to show your humor.

I hope she wears something sexy in bed

"Who cares what she wears? It's always a secondary question," one man said, echoing what most men were saying. But whether you are dressed sexy or not can often affect how long your orgasm lasts. And duration is often a concern for men.

If men are asked, "Would you like it if she dressed sexy when you undressed her?" Most will admit that they do. A man who didn't care much about this replied: "No matter what, it's fine with me, as long as she doesn't wear too much." There are indeed great differences on this issue, but it cannot be denied that clothing is a factor that cannot be ignored. Men get excited when they look at underwear and stockings.

Nine Lies to Make You Love Deeper

One of the lies a woman must tell

We all hope that the man we fall in love with has well-developed muscles like Schwarzenegger, a handsome face like Louis Koo, and grace like Chow Yun-fat, but if we say it, it will undoubtedly make him sad and ashamed.

Tell him that you like his furry belly because it makes you feel spring-like warmth in the winter. Tell him you like hearing him snoring like a grizzly bear at night to make you feel safe. One day, if he goes on a business trip and cannot hear his roar at night, you will be like a general who has been in the battlefield for a long time and has insomnia because he cannot hear the sound of gunfire. If you love him, tell him that you appreciate everything about him and that his flaws are his characteristics. It's him you love and he doesn't have to change in order to marry you.

Women must tell lies.

His friends drink heavily and chew meat loudly. They have no success in their careers but still talk eloquently. They are no longer teenagers but still give guidance to the country. You don't like these stinky men, but they are very important to him. Even if there are occasionally outstanding people among them, you don't want to always have a light bulb lighting up the intimate eyes between you and your boyfriend. then what should we do? Say you don't like them? He will think that you are picky, that you don't give him face, that you don't agree with his friendship and loyalty. Therefore, no matter how unhappy you are, don't say it out loud. If you say it, it will hurt his face and hurt his feelings. So, if you have to eat late at night with those stinky men, learn to like them, or at least pretend to like them. Then, slowly use your schedule to eat into his time, and quietly reduce his "friendly visits" with his friends and friends. If one day he suddenly realizes that he hasn't had a party in a long time, you can also smile and say that he really misses them.

Three things women must tell lies

The biggest characteristic of men is laziness, and the biggest characteristic of men's homes is chaos. Look at ancient Chinese legends. Men always hope that a little fairy will come down from the sky and clean the house and cook for them. Therefore, to a man who has just started to have a relationship, you must show your thoughtfulness and say in a very sensible manner, "Let me help you pack things." Then happily help him clean up the messy tableware and act like he is very fond of it. Housework looks like. In this way, men tend to have family-like warmth and miss you more when you are away. Of course, such good times don't have to last long. After his house is completely new and he starts to rely on you, it won't be too late for you to slowly train him to do manual work. First, urge him to wash his smelly socks after exercise, and tell him solemnly, "Don't throw things away like a child."

Four things women must tell lies

If you are a very lucky woman, you may see friendly eyes when you visit his parents. But generally speaking, when you step into his home with trepidation, you will first see the hostility in his mother's eyes, as if you are a love rival who has come to the door, and your careless boyfriend knows nothing about it. He also foolishly thinks that you love him and his mother loves him, so you and his mother can love each other. Don't think you can explain this profound issue to him. If he asks, tell him sincerely that you enjoy spending time with his family. If you say you don't like it, it's likely to hurt his feelings. A woman who has been a daughter-in-law for many years concluded that to be friendly to his family members, the only way to put it into action is to give him more gifts. Tell him you love his family, be sure to avoid any conflicts over family, and keep the time of meeting around birthdays or holidays.

Five things women must tell lies

We will never understand men’s passion for sports. He would always watch TV games with his eyes glued to them after work. As soon as he went to bed, he would grab "Football News" and "New Sports" and watch them with excitement. He watched the Serie A (Football League) and the Bundesliga, the German Bundesliga and La Liga, and then entered the NBA round-robin to watch Jordan and Yao Ming. If you tell him that you also like sports and sit down to watch football with him, you can quickly enter his world. If one day you can't stand him looking at football magazines every day but not seeing you, you can say to him: "I love sports, especially sports with you." Then you hold his hand and go jogging in the park. , dragging him to the rivers, lakes and seas to swim and watch the sunset. If he dares to disobey, you can point out that he is a fake sports fan who only talks but does not practice. If the man loses his temper, he will obey you.

Six things women must tell lies

Your boyfriend is outstanding, but he always seems a bit domineering. What stands out is that he always likes to argue when chatting with you, and he must compete with you. Of course, if you are superior to him, he will definitely not SHUT UP. He will suddenly raise his voice on the street and compete with you over the performance of a certain role in the movie. You are not willing to waste words with him on some innocuous issues. At this moment, it is obviously unwise to raise your voice and confront him tit for tat. You need to give the man some face and coax him, "You are right, what you say makes sense." The temporary concession is just for better use in the future. You One day he will be convinced that he has lost. A wise man said that a woman is her neck, and her neck will determine the direction of rotation of her head. Men always think that they know everything and control everything, but it is women who really have actual control. Women can always control the overall situation quietly. So, don't argue with him.

Seven things women must tell lies

When the man's eyes were staring straight at the red-haired girl in the supermarket, you were filled with anger and fear. Even though you don't have the beauty of a man who is as beautiful as a fish or a wild goose, you hope that your boyfriend's eyes will always be waiting for you, from the end of the day. Once your boyfriend's eyeballs are "smuggled", you want to use your air-splitting palm to drive away your potential love rival, or use the star-absorbing method to firmly control your boyfriend's sight within N square centimeters around you. There is no need to fall out in public and embarrass him. The best way is to tell a sincere lie: "I don't mind if you look at other women, and then find an opportunity to hint to him that "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." If he still seems to be If you don't quite understand, then you will make an exaggerated wait-and-see attitude when you are with him, scanning the handsome guys in the past all day long. He will restrain himself when he feels a little jealous.

Women must tell eight lies

There are many successful young men in the world today who are rich and wealthy, but your boyfriend is just a cash-strapped wage earner. You fall in love with him, not because of his bankbook, but because of who he is. Because he is healthy, hardworking, humorous, considerate and loyal. You choose him because you think he is a potential stock, he will become rich, and he will allow you to live a win-win life of material civilization and spiritual civilization for the rest of your life. Yes, this is your wishful thinking. But at this stage, he really does not have the ability to buy you a house or a car. For this reason, he often apologizes to you, complains that he is incompetent and makes you suffer. At this moment, no matter what, you have to make up a beautiful lie: "I really don't mind how much money you have."

Women must tell 9 lies, this happens to everyone

Most men will experience erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives, where they feel hot and aroused, only to have nothing happen. You were disappointed and he looked frustrated. A smart and considerate woman will say, "Don't worry, honey, this happens to everyone." Maybe you also need to say to him, "Size doesn't matter," and "You're the best I've ever met." No matter what he is like, if you love him and choose to be with him, you should encourage him and comfort him. Cheers to him next time.