Women are charming and have changed everything. There are only two types of men: one is a good man and the other is a bad man. Since ancient times, there have been two kinds of good men who deserve women to go through fire and water, even to pieces without regrets. The first is a man who dares to sacrifice his life for a woman. This kind of man values ​​love and justice and can be encountered but not sought. Unfortunately, in the material age, there are fewer such men than giant pandas. Another kind of man is Yang Guo, the man who was loved by Xiao Longnu in Jin Yong's novel - the best love in the world. This kind of man pursues the supremacy of love, which is very consistent with women's love values. What makes people sigh is that in the current era of fleeting love, men who have been waiting for love for 16 years are almost extinct. In many literary and artistic works and film and television works, these two types of men are often the protagonists of great love. I have always been full of heartfelt praise for this kind of man who lives in women's fantasies, although this kind of praise sometimes seems very nihilistic and even boring.

In fact, in real life, these two kinds of good men worthy of women’s lifelong admiration are rare. Most men are the kind of men between good men and bad men. This kind of man is very smooth and difficult to grasp. If you take a step to the left, you may be a bad man; if you take a step to the right, you may be a good man. Once a woman unfortunately encounters such a bad man, almost all her happiness in the rest of her life will be buried in tears. Women are like seeds. If they are sown in fertile soil, they will blossom and bear fruit and be extremely happy. But if it is spread on barren land, it will wither like mud, and its life will be dark and desolate. In reality, many flowers are always placed on cow dung. And men who are like cow dung are often more favored by women than men whose bellies are empty and have only skin. Interestingly, many men hate seeing flowers stuck in cow dung and accuse women of being selfish, which is too realistic. From a woman's point of view, although cow dung smells bad, it is very nutritious. At least it will bloom more beautifully than if it were planted on barren soil. Women are like flowers, and flowers have their flowering season. Once you miss it, even if you show it, you will feel lonely. In the material age, if a woman chooses fertile land, she does not need to blame herself, and others have no reason to blame her. Who wants to let themselves wither in the dark night with no one cheering?

A woman betting her whole life on a man is talking about wisdom, but in the end she has to rely on luck. Choosing a man is like buying stocks. If this man is a potential stock or a blue-chip stock, the woman will receive generous returns in her lifetime. If this man is a junk stock, he will lose all his money and will be deeply trapped. But men in reality are often good at pretending. It is not easy for a woman to completely understand a man before marriage. Women are fickle, what changes is their face. And men are fickle, what changes is their hearts. A man whose heart has changed is hopeless. Unfortunately, when many women encounter a man who changes his mind, they always want to use tenderness to influence the man, and even foolishly hope that the man will change his mind one day. In fact, few men who change their minds will change their minds. A smart woman does not need to beg hard once she encounters a bad lover. The only thing she can do is to maintain her last dignity and give the bad lover a look that she will regret one day.

So, it is indeed worth considering whether a man who divorces another woman is a good man and whether it is worth the woman's bet. When the talented Zhang Ailing was reflecting on her scarred love journey one night, she sighed with emotion: Maybe every man has two women like this, at least two. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one will still be the moonlight in front of the bed; marry a white rose, and the white one will become a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one will be the heart. cinnabar nevus.

A smart woman like Zhang Ailing’s dissection of the essence of men is so real and cruel, and she still cannot escape the gentle trap set by men. In my opinion, the emotional entanglement between my beautiful classmate who has been divorced for two years and a married man is destined to not have a good outcome. Numerous facts have proven that most men who divorce for another woman are not considered good men. So I always think that it is best for a woman not to marry a man who divorces you. After all, if the first woman can't handle something, the next ten women can't handle it either. Smart women should understand that the best woman in a man's mind is always the unknown next one. Don't make the mistake of thinking that a man who dares to divorce you is a man worthy of being entrusted with your life. Zhang Ailing’s life experience tells us: No woman is the only one for a man. Since he can divorce you, he can also divorce you for the next woman.

A man’s oath is unreliable, just like a woman’s age, which is always full of mystery. When I was young, I always thought vows were important. Love lasts forever, and falling in love with someone will never change. In fact, the things that change the fastest in the world are often those sweet vows, and the same is true for love. Not many long-lasting love can last forever. And those great loves that move us to tears are often tragedies that start well but don't end well. In real life, how many women can withstand the torment of great love?

The Wenchuan Earthquake made many people begin to re-examine love and marriage, which are as fragile as life. The cruel reality tells us: life is impermanent, and cherishing the people in front of you is the most important thing.

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