Wrong sex concepts that women should correct
Conservative, backward and wrong sexual concepts and sexual experiences bring people indelible pain. The following ladies class will relieve everyone's depression and let you know that enjoying sex is not a shameful thing. .
Misconception 1: Sex should be dominated by the man, and you just have to listen to your husband when it comes to going to bed
Luo Xiaoqiao and Guo Qiang have known each other for many years. When they were in school, they were good friends and besties; after work, they were good colleagues. Therefore, at least in the eyes of outsiders, their union must be happy and fulfilling. However, this is not the case.
Because Luo Xiaoqiao, who was born in the early 1960s, grew up in a sexually repressed environment, her mother instilled in her such things as "sex is a man's business" and "don't tell men about your Like sex", "Just listen to your husband when going to bed", etc. These wrong sexual concepts have been deeply imprinted on Luo Xiaoqiao's heart.
Therefore, after more than two years of marriage, she has been suppressing her sexual desire and has never taken the initiative. Every time she has sex, it is her husband Guo Qiang who proposes it, so she dares to respond to him...< /p>
At first, she thought it was nothing. Guo Qiang also thought that his wife had just changed from a girl to a woman, and thought she was just shy; however, as time passed, problems arose. First of all, Luo Xiaoqiao couldn't bear it anymore, and she became very depressed and even a little nervous; what about Guo Qiang? Guo Qiang also changed. His wife's long-term inactivity made him feel like a lustful animal and made him think that he was selfish. Therefore, slowly, he no longer had any "sexual" interest in living as a couple.
Misconception 2: Sex is dirty and going to bed is obscene
Zhang Li is a senior lecturer at a university. It stands to reason that a senior intellectual like her should have a relatively clear understanding of sex. There are levels, however, the reality is just the opposite.
When Zhang Li was 28 years old, she married Professor Li Chongwen Li, whom she admired most. After they got married, everything went smoothly except for one thing, which was the "sexual affair" between them: Zhang Li refused to sleep with her husband, Professor Li. No matter which time, whenever Professor Li wanted to, Zhang Li refused and said: "How can I do such a dirty thing with you? I can do anything for you, even die! But, absolutely not Never do such dirty and dirty things with the person I admire the most! "How can sex be dirty? However, no matter how much Professor Li tried to persuade him, Zhang Li was determined not to go to bed with him. She was really pushed to the point where she "ran away from home."
After being rejected again and again, Professor Li decided to take her to see a psychiatrist. With the help of the psychiatrist, after more than half a year, Zhang Li finally realized her sexuality. Childish in aspects. After that, she finally began to live a real "couple life" with Professor Li.
Misconception 3: Everything needs to be regulated, including going to bed
32-year-old Adi is an associate professor at a university in Guangzhou. She has developed a meticulous style during her long-term scientific research work, and is highly praised by her leaders and colleagues in the school. It's a pity that she brought this habit back home and even brought it into the couple's sex life. Adi's job requires her to have a formula-like norm or code for everything she does. Therefore, she believes that the same goes for going to bed, and there should also be a set of formulas.
Adi remembered an article she had read a few years ago about couples’ sex. The article cited numerous examples to illustrate that couples aged 30 to 50 should have sex three to four times a week. . She thought it made sense, so she took advantage of Sunday to set a "sexual life standard" for herself: three times a week, once every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.
In the following days, Adi began to have conjugal sex with her husband in accordance with this norm. However, not long after, her husband began to have objections: When I think about it, it is not on the day you specified; and on the day you specified, I may not have sex!
Misconception 4: Silent sex is better than loud sex, and crying is a symbol of lust
Xiao Min likes her husband very much. Of course, her husband also likes Xiao Min very much. He He often takes the initiative to express his love to Xiao Min. However, because of an unspeakable incident, his attitude towards Xiao Min changed qualitatively.
The thing is, every time he passionately expresses his love to his wife Xiao Min, he really wants to get Xiao Min's response. However, Xiao Min always responded to him with "Silence is better than sound at this time". This made him mistakenly think that Xiao Min didn't like going to bed with him or even disliked him. Sometimes he also doubted whether he was in trouble or whether his caressing was unsuccessful... These doubts were often mixed together, and finally made him slow down. Slowly lost interest in continuing to sleep with Xiao Min.
After a long time, Xiao Min noticed this change in her husband. She wondered if her husband was having an affair, but after overt inspection and secret investigation, it was not the case. What was the reason? One night, while eating, she couldn't help but express her doubts. So, that night they put out all the "ideas" in their hearts. Now, things became clear. Xiao Min said that she was responsive. Every time her high reached the extreme, she not only wanted to reach up with her hands and kick her feet, but she also wanted to scream. But every time, I gritted my teeth and resisted, trying hard not to scream. Make a sound, because moaning is very lewd. Only the heroines in pornographic discs will moan loudly and shamelessly like that. "That's not true! In fact, it's a normal physiological reaction to scream naturally. It doesn't matter whether it's lustful or not. Just scream if you want to!" After hearing this, her husband quickly enlightened her. As a result, that night they experienced the beauty of sex that they had never experienced before.
Being able to have the most intimate emotional communication and physical union with the person you love most is a blessing that people have cultivated for thousands of years. Only those devils who are jealous of this happiness of mankind will try their best to destroy it. Therefore, in this sense, those nuns who are obsessed with lust are actually the embodiment of the devil. Are you the devil incarnate? Do you want to be a devil? If you don’t want to, then you need to quit drugs!
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