Will you feel comfortable in a naked marriage?

With regard to the topic of naked marriage, everyone will give their own different opinions, but generally speaking, everyone agrees with naked marriage, and even believes that a naked marriage will be more solid and beautiful.

1. Is a naked marriage comfortable?

Naked, what does it mean? Exposed, not covered.

Naked marriage refers to people who directly get married without buying a house, a car, a wedding, or even a wedding ring. This term is a new Internet term that emerged in 2008. However, I do think that more needs to be added. Nowadays, many friends who get married naked do not buy a house or a car, but because their current financial strength cannot afford a house or a car for the time being, even the wedding expenses make it difficult for them. This is probably the true sense of naked marriage.

Compared with the elite men and women I met on the show, Xia Xiaohui and Song Jia are completely naked couples in reality. Two young people of the same age who had just graduated met by chance during an outing. The spark of love ignited, and soon the two young people became inseparable. Neither of their hometowns are in Beijing, and their parents are both working-class people who work hard. They agreed that they would never try to take advantage of the old people, and they would create their own lives. Although both young people have their own jobs, after all, there are no big fruits to be harvested from their just-started careers, so they temporarily share a unit with others.

Their situation is very similar to that of Haiwei and her first boyfriend in "Snail House". They often eat boiled noodles for ten consecutive days at the end of the month, and instant noodles become a luxury in the last week of each month. adjustment. Song Jia said that what made her happiest during those days was when the two of them walked, played checkers, and told stories together after dinner. However, life is always changeable. Due to many reasons, the marriage between Song Jia and Xiao Xia did not last long. The specific reasons will not be described in detail here, so as not to have directional implications on the topic of naked marriage. Shan said that Song Jia and I had a conversation long after her divorce. At that time, I asked her: "How does it feel to get married naked?" Son Jia, who is already 28 years old, answered me maturely: "We were too young at that time."

Is it okay to get married naked? It looks good!

With the current high housing prices, young friends will buy their own houses and cars as soon as they enter the society. Therefore, it is very worthy of our appreciation to have such an outlook on life by building your own life by yourself instead of being a cuckold. Moreover, when there is no utilitarian purpose in the motivation of the relationship between the sexes, then the emotion is relatively pure. Simple things are often the most extravagant dreams of people in this society. Therefore, in a complex social environment, when someone can create this simplicity with you, not only will the relationship become as clear as crystal, but even you will see yourself. His mentality is somewhat heroic and great. Naked marriage shows your special personality in a realistic way that is unconventional and not bound by social bad habits. It’s cool!

Is it okay to get married naked? It’s hard to say!

Marriage is the formation of a family between two mature people of the opposite sex. In addition to the physiological needs and responsibilities of the family such as sexual needs, having children, and supporting the elderly, there are two other points worthy of attention, namely, its economic function and emotional communication function. I don't think the economic function is utilitarian for a family, it exists objectively in reality.

My husband and I got married in our thirties. We both have a lot of accumulation in life. Although we did not take wedding photos, hold a wedding banquet, or buy a wedding house, because we already own a house, so at most Considered a half-naked person.

Neither my husband nor I are people with a lot of desires. Normally, financial problems should not be a factor that troubles our lives very much, but we have also experienced many financial-related problems after marriage. Not long after I got married, I needed to study and spend money! Being sick and hospitalized costs money! If you are afraid of getting sick again in the future, you will buy commercial insurance and spend money! It’s the Spring Festival not long after the wedding, so you should honor both parents and spend money! My husband’s sister gave birth to a baby, and my best friend’s child turned one year old and gave her a red envelope to spend money on! In order to show his filial piety to my parents, my husband renovated their house and spent money on it! The car broke down and I spent money...

Endless life, endless money, if these problems appear in the life of a naked married couple who need to eat instant noodles to relieve the dilemma of eating noodles, I am afraid that their mood will not be relaxed and happy (perhaps There are also small parts that can be faced happily).

However, financial pressure can be overcome after all. The most important thing is to save more, give less red envelopes, put aside your filial piety to your parents for the time being, and wait until you have accumulated enough ability to bear it. Not too late. In this way, wouldn’t the impact of economic pressure on gender relations be reduced? Yes, you can ignore financial pressure for the time being and pretend it didn't happen, but if such problems appear frequently in your life, it will cause another family function to be affected, which is the function of emotional communication.

Despite the opposition of his family and the tears in his wife's naked eyes, Zhang Yang resolutely gave up his salaried job in Beijing and went to work in Shenzhen to make money. His reason is simple. He feels that he is about to be overwhelmed by the "guilt" brought by this love. Whenever I go shopping with my beloved, and see my wife's envy and disappointment at those dazzling display windows, I can't express the discomfort in my heart. He started working part-time to make more money for himself, but work pressure and performance pressure made his temper more out of control. He would always intentionally or unintentionally bring his bad mood at work home, making his innocent wife a punching bag. Zhang Yang knows that this is particularly bad for him, but if he gives up his part-time job, he will face a difficult life situation. If he does not give up his part-time job, he will face collapse. In the end, he chose to leave temporarily.

According to the theory of stress, if people always face things that are beyond their ability, they will have anxiety. When anxiety occurs, they will be dissatisfied with their current situation and have some expectations for themselves. If it rises, you may put more pressure on yourself. Over time, a bad cycle is formed, eventually leading to high anxiety. At this time, people's emotions may lose their normalcy and lose self-control. Even when the anxiety caused by stress reaches saturation, emotional loss of control will lead to loss of interpersonal communication. If you are a lover, it is easier for a "war" to break out.

Nude wedding, okay? There are good and bad, after all, life is full of different things. Some people think it's good, and some people think it's bad. It depends on people's ability to deal with problems and their mentality when encountering difficulties and setbacks. However, no matter whether it is good or bad, many practical problems caused by naked marriage exist objectively and cannot be completely and permanently covered by love. Marriage is not about material things, but about the spirit of mutual support, joint efforts and the warmth of mutual dependence. Without a peaceful mind and a relatively stable environment, it is easier to destroy the confidence in working together and the close and warm state of two people getting along.

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