When women complain that their husbands don’t understand them and don’t understand their feelings, have they ever thought that they are pushing him further and further away? Recently, the American "Marie Marie" magazine wrote an article pointing out the "mistakes" women often make in marriage, hoping to give women a warning.

Unwillingness to enjoy sex “as one pleases”. Patti Howell, vice president of the California Healthy Marriage Counseling Center, pointed out that one of the surprises and enjoyment of sex is that desire always comes unexpectedly. Actively cooperate with your husband during intercourse, and even take the initiative to launch a "lingering offensive", which can satisfy the man's sexual desire to the greatest extent.

Over-reliance on technology. Network communication has developed greatly, which has both advantages and disadvantages. One of the consequences is that the ability to communicate face-to-face is getting weaker and weaker. "Many couples who consult me ​​have a problem: they can communicate using the Internet or mobile phones, but when face to face, they lose the ability to 'flirt verbally.'" said Ian Koner, a registered sex therapist in the United States, "Flirting is A skill that maintains mutual love and is an effective way to rekindle love and enhance desire."

Sex is not the same as intimacy. Romance novel writer Barbara Cartland said: "For men, sex is equal to intimacy; and many women stubbornly regard intimacy as the basis of sex. When encountering some minor conflicts, they use sexual cold war with their husbands Cross move. ”