I occasionally read a psychologist who said that today's love is not true love, because true love is without requirements, but today's love has added various requirements. In addition to requiring the other party to love you, you must also add Body, appearance, even house and car. I don't deny that the psychologist is right. An impetuous society has created an impetuous psychology, but is love without any requirements true love? Men and women have different understandings of love. Men think that it is enough to have each other in their hearts, but women hope that men will not only say it with words, but also prove it with actions. And this proves to be deeper as the two people spend more time together. Women often say to men, if you love me, yes. . . . , there are countless possibilities for the ellipses following. And men will always get more and more annoyed and ask, why do women always have so many demands? And if you just ignore her a little bit, she will think in a direction that she doesn't love? When we love someone, we certainly hope that the other person will live a happy life. Women are born with a lack of security, so they hope that men will prove it. However, in the face of various proofs, in fact, the most proven thing is that women lack self-confidence. Women who constantly make demands on men are afraid of losing, so they need proof. But is love just a bouquet of flowers he gave you on his birthday? Women think that all these are things that men should do for granted, just like some men think that women are born to take care of all the housework. But if it’s not conscious, who would be willing to prove their love for the other person over and over again forever? Women say that if you love me, you must meet all my requirements. Men say that if you love me, you must give me freedom. Women always like to say that it is because they love you that they want you to accompany you, nag you, and complain about you. However, men think that this is just the love that women impose on themselves. Real love is to give to the other person. With enough freedom, no one wants to listen to someone repeating certain things every day like chanting sutras, so no one is willing to accommodate the other person. In fact, those nagging and complaining all come from having too many demands that cannot be met. If there were fewer demands, there would naturally be fewer complaints. But in the absence of desire, who can be sober? We are emotional animals, so why don’t we have any requirements for emotions? If you fall in love with a pretty young man, do you still think he is very popular? If you fall in love with a man who doesn't seek advancement, do you still think that he can be at home with you every day? It is said that contentment always brings happiness, but being too content is also unhealthy. When you silently contribute to the other person, but they don't say a word of thanks, are you still enjoying it? I believe such a woman really does not exist. A woman's love for a man cannot depend entirely on her feelings. Sometimes she really needs to keep her eyes open. If a man needs a woman's constant request before he can act, he is actually not a qualified good man. I met a man who said that there are three most important festivals for women, which men must remember and express. These three festivals are her birthday, their wedding anniversary, and Valentine's Day. This man understands women very well and knows what women want. In fact, women's requirements are sometimes very simple. Three hundred and sixty-five days, only a few special days of special care are enough. But some men would rather wander around on these special days than give their wives special care. Of course, some men say romance costs money? There is no denying that some women in the market want men to use money to build romance, but more women are satisfied with just a passionate kiss and a thoughtful little gift from a man. If men can understand each other in this way, how can women become demanding ladies? Of course, a happy family requires two people to accommodate each other, demand less from each other, and demand more from themselves. Such a shift in concepts will make each other get along more harmoniously. Because of love, we will have demands, but because of love, we will also learn to tolerate. Everything should be done in moderation. Appropriate demands will make each other closer, but excessive demands will make the other person want to escape. If you change "If you love me, you will..." to "If I love you, you will...", I believe that by lowering your requirements, you will not lose anything, but will make the other person more and more like you. I am attached to you and willing to make you happy.

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