The Electra complex is a girl who, at a certain stage in her growth process, has a subconscious awareness of possessing her father as her lover and her mother as a competitor. Because the mother always has her father, she has an instinctive desire to exclude the mother and monopolize the father. However, this consciousness is immoral, not accepted by society, is extremely sinful, and is impossible to realize. of. So she drills it into her subconscious mind, but this subconscious mind affects her personality, her behavior, and her choice of men in some way.

The reason why the Electra complex does not attract as much attention as the Oedipus complex is mainly due to the fact that women’s status has never been high, women’s desires have always been suppressed and ignored, and women are not as good as men. That's hurtful and she's only hurting herself even if she has a mental disorder. When a man has a psychological disorder, he will be very aggressive and will commit crimes in extreme cases, so the Oedipus complex attracts so much attention.

The Electra complex has a more special meaning for women than the Oedipus complex for men. If the Oedipus complex for men establishes the ideal image of a woman and sexual orientation in his mind; then for a woman, through the image of her father, it not only affects her emotional tendencies and sense of security, but also determines her lifelong Understanding and attitude towards men. The Electra complex sometimes has a decisive influence on women. If a woman cannot successfully transition out of this stage and replaces her father with another man, she will live in pain.

The Electra complex is a knot in the heart of women. From a young age, the first man she comes into contact with is her father. In her feelings and concepts, father represents love, kindness, and protection. , thoughtfulness, majesty, strength and safety. Girls do not have as clear a sexual concept as men. In fact, it is natural that when it comes to cleaning and bathing little girls, fathers are the most natural (non-malicious) first to come into contact with girls’ sexual privacy. For men, little girls at this time will be undefended. It is only under the constant restraint and instruction of mother and father that they will feel ashamed. When a girl understands a little bit about sex, the girl instinctively knows how to protect herself sexually. She also has a strong sense of shame, especially about sex. At this time, she will have a relatively strong sense of self-protection of sexual privacy. At this time, she will feel uneasy about her father seeing her private parts (for boys) He will not feel uneasy about his mother seeing his penis, because it has always been an organ used for peeing and can be used as a joke), so he has an ambivalent attitude towards his father. .

Although she also knew that this was the most natural thing and could only accept this fact mentally, it was psychologically contradictory after all, and she suppressed this ambivalence in her subconscious. Boys do not have this special change process towards their mothers, so men do not have such ambivalent feelings towards women.

In fact, at a certain stage of a girl’s growth, subconsciously, she always regards her father as her first lover and her mother as her love rival. When she grew up and became sensible, she realized that this was impossible and incestuous, which made her feel guilty, so she wanted to drive it into her subconscious.

And in the future, she would always unconsciously compare other men with her father to see if he could treat her as well as her father. She will also feel that finding another man is disloyal to her father, so she will feel guilty. Therefore, girls at this stage will appear very strange and rebellious, and their attitude towards their parents will also be very strange, like an awkward lover.

When a girl has a sense of sexual protection, it is when she begins to mature sexually, and it is also when she is most vulnerable to sexual abuse. From the time she is an animal, in the process of growing up, women first The sexual abuse suffered by the opposite sex may come from the father, because other adult men do not have the opportunity to contact them, and the brothers may not be sexually mature yet.

At this time, in the eyes of the pregnant mother, the father may be the most dangerous man to her daughter. She may prefer that he go outside to find other women. With such encouragement from women, men may be more willing to go out. Looking for other women outside may be another reason why a man is easily distracted.

As a girl grows up, when she encounters any difficulties, her father always solves them personally. He is the person who can best bring her a sense of security. This is a feeling of a biological field, which means it is a purely natural feeling that is not controlled by will and thought. There is no reason to explain it. As long as her father is around, she can feel safe.

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