Women who suit men’s “taste”
Those women who suit men's "taste"
This often happens around us: a boy has been in a stable relationship for many years, and it seems that he really loves this girl. However, maybe one day he will just say "I don't think I'm suitable for marriage" and run away. But then, he might quickly start a new relationship. What makes a man run away from a stable relationship and start a vigorous relationship again? This seems to be an unsolvable mystery. Even if you are living together, there is no guarantee that your boyfriend can seriously consider marriage.
Remember that famous gossip: the tall and handsome Ben Affleck and the sexy and enchanting Jennifer Lopez fell in love. They were so romantic that they showed their love by candlelight and roses... Almost all the clever tricks for picking up girls that can be shown in movies can be played successfully by Xiao Ben. At the moment when everyone was looking forward to their marriage, Xiao Ben unexpectedly became a runaway groom. The beauty was furious and lost face, so J.Lo said: Ben has a phobia about marriage! (Meaning, he won’t even marry me, let alone anyone else.) The result surprised everyone. Shortly after breaking up with Jennifer, Ben quietly married Jennifer... Canary, and soon had the crystallization of love.
It is estimated that our sexy goddess has not figured it out to this day: I, the beauty that so many men have coveted and coveted, actually missed the link at this last critical link. She must have asked the classic "Ana Reika-style" question in her heart - I have done everything I can do, what is there about me that can't hold a man's heart?
For men, which women to take to bed and which women to take home are two separate issues. Many girls find it difficult to understand why men’s ideas are sometimes simple and sometimes weird. Yes, sometimes men's impulse to get married may come from temporary passion, but the motivation that makes them decide is actually based on the woman herself. They are more practical and simpler than we think. If you are waiting for his proposal, then check the following content to see what your chances of winning are.
A man will marry... a versatile woman
The ending of the currently popular American TV series "Lost" always leaves many unanswered questions in order to attract viewers Can’t wait for next season to come out. In the same way, a woman who can make a man never forget to marry her will definitely make him feel a sense of expectation and hunger.
I remember that a senior aunt once taught the unmarried girls in the office so earnestly: Before getting married, you should not feed a man too much. At that time, we just thought it was the sour psychology of menopausal women towards beautiful women in love. Now it seems that it is simply a motto of love. Think about it, if you can buy and sell freely with or without a license from the Industrial and Commercial Bureau, how many people will go to the trouble to get stamped? If you have done everything you need to do after marriage when you are living together, how many men are still willing to put a tight spell on themselves?
The charm of a woman comes from unexpected surprises. She can always show a different side of herself and is always full of curiosity about new things. For men, this type of woman can make them believe that marriage is not the tomb of love and that life is not static. Living with her is an adventure for a man. What he brings home is not a heavy wardrobe, but a treasure chest. What will fly out of it? What will happen next second? God knows.
Men will marry...half-sugar girls
Someone has said: When a man knows that he has you all, that is when he loses interest in you. This actually makes sense. Especially when you put all your attention on a man, you think that you have given everything and deserve his 100% attention, but the reality is often the opposite. Men's natural possessiveness determines that they only have the greatest enthusiasm for prey that has not yet been obtained. This is why women who look independent often make men feel more attractive.
For men, a woman who puts all her joy, anger, sorrow, and joy on herself is terrifying to them. They resist this full sense of responsibility, this obligation to fulfill every second, which makes them want to run away. Facing the question raised by Li Xiang, Wan Zhi simply replied: "Your love puts pressure on me and makes me feel breathless."
Seen ten years ago This scene was just an exasperated snort. It was obviously an excuse and there was no logic at all. How could Lixiang's understanding and lively and generous nature make you unhappy? Now I finally understand that the intention of the screenwriter is to remind those perfect, selfless, and wholeheartedly loving women that even if you don't expect anything in return for your efforts, it is difficult for a man to repay you with marriage. First of all, men don't like to use their lives to repay kindness, and secondly, they are afraid of being in debt to women.
Men will marry...weak women
As mentioned above, men like independent women, but here we must grasp the boundary between independence and indifference (the scale can refer to married strong women Madonna, Nick... Kidman, Faye Wong). In fact, machismo is not only hidden deep in the minds of most Chinese men. For many Western men, male dignity is also a sensitive aspect. Hu Jun once talked about his views on strong women through COSMO: "Actually, it's not that men dare not marry strong women, but that these strong women have not found a place to be women. They should know that around men, you are not a manager, not a manager. CEO, you are not a big star, you are just a woman - you always need a stronger shoulder to lean on."
For a man, being needed is very important. They think that career is like a battlefield, so they need someone to fight alongside them and always stand on their side. You don't need to decide every detail for him. In comparison, it is more important to insist on taking care of his life. You need to let him know that you really care about him and you can share everything about him. Being weak sometimes is not a sign of weakness, it just makes yourself more real.