Women want to marry new gentleman men
In the eyes of women, although men with new gentlemanism have the demeanor of a modest gentleman, they will never become people who are restricted by the box. Their behavior will change as the environment changes. They react accordingly, but they have only one goal, and that is to protect the person they love most, even if it ruins their image, they will not hesitate at all.
If you want to find a representative figure in this regard, you might as well talk about the artist Li Yapeng. When attending the wedding of Carina Lau and Tony Leung, a reporter raped Li Yapeng's daughter Li Yan at the airport. Li Yapeng immediately became furious. After the warning failed, he actually started beating the other person, even if there was a woman in the other party. Some people say that doing so would damage Li Yapeng's image too much. However, when Li Yapeng talked about the incident afterwards, he said that he had no regrets at all, and that he did not act impulsively. He was willing to do this in order to protect the person he loved most.
No longer regard money as dirt
New gentleman men not only know how to make money, but also know how to use money. Their view of money no longer regards money as dirt; is important, and they do not hide their opinions from others.
New gentleman men advocate neoclassicism
Yishu said that a real lady will not boast about how many books she has read or how many places she has traveled. In the same way, a true gentleman would not boast about his wealth of knowledge or wealth. New gentleman men advocate neoclassicism in culture. In other words, they will not copy the Western style, let alone think that drinking red wine and smoking cigars is gentleman culture. Instead, they will learn from Chinese classical culture. Learn from it and become a "Chinese gentleman". Of course, new gentleman men can also speak fluent English, but they know that their most important thing to challenge the world is their own things.
Know how to set boundaries for yourself
Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. This is a truth that everyone knows. However, new gentleman men “do not want others to do to you.” , must be reported to others.” This is a skill in dealing with people and a kind of wisdom gained through life experience. To paraphrase a popular saying in the West, it is to “set boundaries for yourself”. Whether it is between colleagues, between superiors and subordinates, between friends, or even between husband and wife, new gentleman men understand where the "border" is and will maintain this boundary in a principled manner. They not only know how to build close relationships and feelings, but also know what they are responsible for and what they are not responsible for, and know how to refuse and how to accept rejection from others.
Be willing to share housework and educate your children
The new gentlemen will be happy to share housework and educate their children. Marriage is long and life is mediocre. A new gentleman man will not sit upright on the sofa to keep his shirt wrinkle-free while his wife is busy with dinner for the family. He will take off his shirt and put on casual clothes to help his wife with dinner or play with the children. group. Of course, taking your children to and from school, holding parent-teacher meetings, and taking your children on outings are all out of the question. It is obvious that a new gentleman man must not only be a good husband, but also a good father.
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