Recommended reading: Teach you how to choose a perfect husband

Deep down, men want to find a lover, but most men will restrain their desires due to a sense of responsibility and other reasons, and a lover is a luxury product , not everyone can have one, so finding a lover is mostly a game for rich men.

However, there were also men who showed off that they could support a wife and children with a monthly income of one thousand, and even found a lover. There are not many such men in the world. Once they find a lover, , the expenses will be much higher than usual.

For example, sending small gifts, having meals together, etc. If this man has no money and cannot please women, how can any woman be willing to be his lover? As for the way to please a woman, in addition to sweet words, material satisfaction is also indispensable.

In fact, it is not uncommon for men to be more generous to their lovers than to their wives. Most of the women outside who are willing to be lovers do so for the man’s money. If the man doesn’t buy her high-end cosmetics, , a nice young and beautiful woman who buys a car and a house, why would she follow you, a middle-aged married man? Of course, men always say that men will find lovers, and women should also reflect on it.

I don’t object to this statement. Women always lose themselves too easily, thinking that dedication is a kind of love. Take good care of the home and discipline the children well, so that men will be grateful to you. In fact, women We are wrong, what men want is not a free nanny, what they want is a woman who can share everything with them.

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It is said that virtuous women take home as wives and charming women keep as lovers. The word virtuous is not an exaggeration here. , but a kind of helplessness, as if this virtuous woman represents a lack of charm.

How can a woman not be charming? How many men are complaining that their women are like dead fish in bed, and then they have already married a beautiful woman as their wife, and they still have to find a lover outside, all because of this beautiful woman Don't understand the style. Didn't some men say that women should have access to the living room and kitchen, plus a big bed?

Yes, men have a lot of demands, but if it is something they can do, what's the harm in accommodating it? You must know that a happy marriage is the joint efforts and efforts of two people.

Those women who are lovers come out to show off nothing more than their youth and beauty. It can be seen that appearance is really important to women. Men are visual animals, but this is not the most important, because No matter how beautiful a woman is, she will grow old. Beauty is only part of what keeps a man's heart. What is more important is of course the connotation of a woman.

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Still remember Dao Lang roaring the song "Lover", you are my lover, a woman like a rose, with you Those fiery lips made me feel endlessly lost in the middle of the night; it can be seen that the lover's charm is the most fundamental reason to impress a man, and this charm is often lacking in women entering marriage.

Life will make a gentle woman lose her patience, and it will also make a beautiful woman become vulgar, but men often won’t buy it for you. They will think that you have changed yourself. It's not his fault.

So women must remember that in addition to being that man’s wife, you are yourself. Never regard a man as everything to you, otherwise you will lose the man’s love. .

And don’t think of a man as yours. Many women are always used to showing their unattractive side to their husbands, and they often look picky towards their husbands with a straight face. Just imagine After a day of work, a man comes home hoping to receive gentle care from a woman instead of blaming her. In this regard, those lovers do better than their wives. They will never say words that they don’t like to hear to men, nor will they say anything to men. Pointing fingers at men’s minor problems.

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But one thing is certain, that is, lovers are just stimulation outside of marriage for men, and men will eventually return to their families. , but when this day comes, the women are already old.

So a woman must learn to be a lover-like wife, retain her feminine side, be coquettish when she should be coquettish, be charming when she should be charming, and never be reluctant to let a man spend money.

Because if you don’t spend his money, he will find other women to help him spend it. Of course, you have to take care of it when it’s time to take care of it. A man is like a child who never grows up. Don't be too relaxed with him, otherwise he might cause some trouble for you. With a wife who is both virtuous and charming, men will naturally not have second thoughts.