It is said that a good woman is a good school. Men are careless in nature and have big nerves. A wise woman must know how to seize the opportunity to prune men appropriately...

I had tea with some sisters a few days ago, and the theme was the same old routine. I held a criticism meeting for the old men in the family. It was good for everyone to talk and vent together, but there was always an outlet to release. In fact, by the age of Bensi, our life has basically been finalized. After more than ten years of marriage, to put it bluntly, this is the moral standard of men. It is either to endure or break up. It is really too late to train, unless something happens. If something happens, there can be no change without an opportunity.

It is said that a good woman is a good school. Men are careless in nature and have big nerves. A wise woman must know how to seize the opportunity to prune men appropriately. Those good opportunities are all opportunities. Don't lose and never come again. If you miss one, you will lose one. When you have missed them all, there is no other way but to accept your fate. For a lifetime of happiness, when the time comes, take action when it is time. After this village, you can There is no such store anymore. If you want men to use it smoothly, then women must seize the following five opportunities:

1. When you are sick

It doesn’t necessarily mean you have a serious illness. Colds, coughs, and fevers are all illnesses. Women should not be too strong. They must show weakness when they should. I have done laundry and cooking when I have a fever. In fact, I have become a man. It’s not easy to think about your kindness. He usually thinks that if you can still buy groceries, cook and do laundry, it means you are fine. So, if you are a little woman at heart, don’t pretend to be a big woman.

2. Pregnancy period

A pregnant woman is the treasure of the family. No matter how strong a man is, he will definitely have a tender side when faced with a woman's growing belly. While women enjoy men cooking and doing housework, they should not forget to correct men's bad habits. . One sister seems to be very disdainful about this. She said that men do this only for the sake of their children. Well, that’s right, but isn’t the child in your belly? The child is not born yet. You and the child are one, so be good to the child. It's good for you. Praise the man more at this time, and he will be more motivated to be a good husband.

3. When you agree to marry him but have not yet obtained the certificate

I have agreed to a man’s proposal but have not yet received the marriage certificate. This period is when men are most obedient. Because before you agree to marry him, you may not be able to see many of his true qualities. This is not cunning. In fact, we women are the same. When we are in love, we will always show our best side to the person we love. in front of people. And after deciding to hold hands, or during the wedding preparation period, a man will be more relaxed than before. This is the best time to find problems and solve them. To put it bluntly, if his shortcomings cannot be changed, and You definitely can't stand it, then you still have a chance to turn back.

4. Three-year preschool for children

Many women will complain that men never care about their children, their daily lives, or their studies. In fact, this is a habit that has been formed. In the first two years after the child is born, most women take care of them, but when the child goes to the nursery, the woman has to stay. Give the man something to do, such as telling stories to the child, or going to the bookstore with the child, even playing with toys and building blocks, etc. Don't let the man worry about this or that when he comes into contact with the child. Men are not that stupid, it is his biological child. , there is no need for him to teach his children badly. If the woman does not guide the man at this time, then the man will not care about the child after he goes to school.

5. When a relative dies

The separation of life and death is a touch for everyone. In this extraordinary period, it is the best time for women to express emotions and understand things. Of course, it refers to the first sad days. In those days, if your sadness is greater than his, then take the initiative to ask him to lend him a shoulder to lean on; if his sadness is greater than yours, then take the initiative to lend him a shoulder to lean on. After this, it is the best period to get rid of many bad habits of men.