Women in love like to use some "little tricks" to attract the opposite sex, and they always work. After entering marriage, many women still like to use these "little tricks" from time to time as a "killer" against men. Who knows, things change with time, and if used improperly, not only will it fail to achieve the effect, it will also cause harm to the marriage. Tears offensive - if used too much, pear blossoms and rain will often arouse men's infinite affection, and a proper tear offensive can make them succumb. Xiaolei has been having a headache recently because of his wife's crying. When in love, the other person will cry when she is wronged, which makes him feel very distressed, and many things go her way. After being married for more than a year, there are always some ups and downs in life. No matter how big or small things happen to my wife, she still sheds tears. "I used to think it was beautiful when a girl cried, but now she always uses her tears to deal with me. There is no sense of beauty at all." Well-known sociologist and Professor Gu Xiaoming of Fudan University in Shanghai told the "Life Times" reporter that when dealing with men, women's tears occasionally Use it once and it can have very good results. But marriage is different from love. After marriage, men bear more pressure and face more problems. Too many tears from women will only make them irritable and think that they are not considerate enough. Verbal threats are easy to make false come true. "Break up" was Jiajia's mantra when she was in love. After marriage, this mantra became "divorce". But one time, when she threatened her husband with "divorce", the other party did not say anything as usual, but replied "just leave". Gu Xiaoming said that Jiajia is a typical "self-inflicted person", although she never thought about "divorce". Talking about "divorce" all day long is just a manifestation of women's coquettishness. But she didn't know that there were some words that she couldn't always say. Saying the word "divorce" too much will plant cracks in the marriage. When a man can't stand it anymore, he will make the lie come true. Intimate violence - Subconscious retaliation. As the saying goes, "Hitting is kissing and scolding is love." Many women like to play coquettishly with their boyfriends to increase the fun. Ms. Li likes to pull her husband's ears on weekdays, sometimes in front of outsiders. After marriage, during a quarrel, she habitually grabbed her husband's ears. The other party was angry and accidentally hit her in anger. "Sometimes men hit women subconsciously." Gu Xiaoming believes that when Ms. Li is "violent" to her husband on weekdays, the other party may have already made some subconscious actions, but perhaps because neither of them takes it seriously, this subconscious fight back will gradually escalate, and finally It may evolve into habitually beating your wife, which is domestic violence. Therefore, in daily life, you should try to avoid touching your partner. Cold War - When the relationship is cold, Feifei will have a cold war with her boyfriend when she is in a relationship and will wait until the other party apologizes. After getting married, Feifei still used this trick frequently. But she found that the deterrent effect of this trick was getting weaker and weaker. Sometimes her husband would not take the initiative to admit his mistakes for a week. Feifei felt that her husband no longer loved her as much as before. The cold war should be limited in marriage. Gu Xiaoming pointed out that in love, this is also a way for women to act coquettishly. It is a sign of trust in men, and they feel that the other person will not leave her because they do not speak. But when it comes to marriage, if you use too much neglect, it can easily turn into cold violence in the family. Over time, the relationship will become indifferent. Gu Xiaoming reminds women in marriage to be wary of men’s bottom lines. When you are in love, if you don't know each other well and are attracted to each other, some "little tricks" can become effective spices between lovers. But after marriage, couples need more communication and support. If women still blindly use the old tricks, on the one hand, men will become accustomed to it and take it for granted. On the other hand, they will look down on women and regret their original choices.

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