Women cannot afford luxurious ambiguity
After marriage, women’s loneliness appears from time to time. It has nothing to do with mood or appearance. It’s all about the discomfort with the unevenness of life. As the marriage progresses, the woman's mood turns from excitement to dullness. Looking at the man who is becoming more and more confused about his amorous feelings, and looking at the increasingly dull married life, the woman begins to foolishly fantasize about love again. It turns out that marriage is the fruit of victory for men, but it is just the beginning of war for women. Therefore, along with loneliness comes restlessness and loneliness. The woman thinks to herself: Is this the love I want? Is this my Prince Charming? Loneliness breeds loneliness, and a lonely environment breeds ambiguity. At the slightest disturbance, a woman will drift away.
Ambiguous, what a enchanting word! A little far away from love, a little away from love, but it is tempting women to move forward step by step. Taking a step forward may mean stepping outside the wall, but taking a step back may make you feel unwilling to do so. Women after marriage are so hesitant, and most of them still keep their ambiguous emotions in their hearts. While worrying about gains and losses, they find that some things are really torturous and troublesome.
Internet Ambiguity
The advent of the Internet age has shortened the distance between people. Whether you are in the south of the country or in the north of the country, a network cable brings fate closer. As a result, women and men who are unwilling to be lonely release their emotions in the virtual world. Especially for women, online ambiguity is more convenient. It not only conceals women's shyness, but also conceals the original truth of life. The Internet can easily make a lonely woman lose her mind, and it can also unleash her imagination of love. At best, she plays games on the Internet and flirts with men, and at worst, it leads to online dating and desperate attempts to meet netizens. As a result, there are too few people who are happy and too many people who are sad. Internet ambiguity is destined to change beyond recognition if it leaves the soil of the Internet, especially for married women. Communicative Ambiguity
With the enrichment of modern life, women are no longer limited to family life, and various social situations have expanded women's communication horizons. Especially with the arrival of the mature woman era, the maturity of young women fascinates men even more. As a result, temptation increases and ambiguity increases. Either for business, for some kind of benefit, or for emotional needs, women also engage in ambiguity just like men. But, how long can this kind of ambiguity last?
Ambiguous love of the past
Women seem to be nostalgic for the past, especially for the original relationship, more so than men. Many times, women are stubborn when it comes to love. The initial emotion always leaves a shadow in the heart. If one day happens to encounter the same emotion or encounter the temptation of the first lover, most women will continue in an ambiguous state to complete the infatuation. However, the consequences of this kind of infatuation are basically the moon in the mirror, leaving only regrets.
In short, any kind of ambiguity is caused by loneliness and dissociation. A woman's loneliness after marriage comes from having too high expectations for marriage or having too perfect imagination of love. Therefore, the best way for a woman to be ambiguous after marriage is to suppress herself in her imagination, otherwise she will only fall deeper and deeper into the situation. Just because ambiguity is a bait, it often leads women to be unable to extricate themselves and walk out of the wall of marriage.