Nowadays, the online media always seems to like to expose some news such as: "Female doctor is looking for a multi-million dollar boss," "College girl wants to marry a millionaire" and other news, intentionally or unintentionally, with a hint of contempt. It is true that , It cannot be denied that some women are looking for rich men, and they are really worshiping money. However, I have also seen that men nowadays have indeed lost the pride they should have as men: more and more. There are many men who are willing and even hope to put the burden of life on women. There is an example to prove this: a survey showed: “70% of men in Shanghai are willing to be househusbands! "How terrible!

Actually, it does not mean that all men should become rich, but that men should face life bravely, be brave, strong, reliable, loyal, and cheerful. , sunshine, tenderness, become the confidence and support for yourself and the woman you love! Unfortunately, these qualities are becoming increasingly difficult to find in Chinese men!

I have been asked this question more than once by my foreign friends! I asked: "Why do Chinese men like to fight for seats on the bus?" Actually once, a customer from a small country in Central Asia asked me frankly: Men here seem to like to fight for seats on the subway, sitting there and digging. Nostrils! I was so ashamed to see those women and children standing! Being criticized and ridiculed by someone from a backward country in Central Asia!

I also saw many married men! They don't treat their wives with respect and love, but with impatience, bad words, hurt and blow! I have to admit that many women do change from pearls to fish eyes after marriage, as Jia Baoyu said, but men do. While we are complaining, we should also ask ourselves: Who stole women’s youth, loveliness, tenderness and sweetness and turned them into fish eyes?

Yishu once said: Working women and housewives are the two most disgusting professions in the world. However, more than 90% of women in China have to hold two jobs. They go to work to earn money to support the family, take care of housework after get off work, and find time to have children. Even so, it is still possible for her husband to dislike him for being ungentle, inconsiderate, and nagging. Many women who live with their parents-in-law may have experienced all kinds of things in the world!

Which girl is not loved and cherished by her parents at home? However, only the luckiest women can continue to retain their innocence and beauty in marriage. Isn’t it said that good women are a school for men, and similarly, good men are also a school for women! It's a pity that there are too few men in China who are qualified to be a school! When faced with the heavy pressure of life, what they give their lovers is not confidence and support, but boredom.

A German engineer I know always comes to China several times a year due to work. Sometimes when chatting, he will say how wonderful his wife is and how happy he is to meet her. Last summer , he took his wife to China for a trip while working. During the three or four days in between, another company in Beijing invited his wife to play (he had to work in Shanghai and couldn't leave!). After he sent his wife to the carriage, Before leaving, they kissed again and again. They really gave me all the warnings and said countless "I love you"! In fact, his wife is in her 50s and looks like she is in her 60s. He looks much younger than his wife and has an elegant and handsome temperament. However, he is very considerate to his wife, taking her everywhere to play and taking a month off specially. Accompanying my wife to travel to Tibet.

Some people may say that this is just superficial work, but how many men in China can do such a face-saving project? I have seen many foreigners who are polite to women and take care of them in everything, from opening doors, pulling out chairs, carrying luggage to arranging itineraries. They also especially like to praise women! But Chinese men generally care more about themselves.

My friend encountered this: She took a taxi with a male friend and a female friend. The man sat in the front passenger seat and the two women sat in the back. The total fare was 17 yuan. After the man paid the money and got off the car, the man said: "Quick 17, 3 people, 6 yuan per person."

But if you date a successful man, the situation may be different. It is concluded that dating a successful man has the following benefits:

1. Successful men generally have a good career and are financially well-off, and will not have a situation like the above 17/3=6 fast.

2. Most successful men are knowledgeable and well-informed, and do not use boring words. They regard poor words as humor and acrimony as sharp conversation.

To sum up, there is no reason for women not to like successful men, because success not only means money, but also represents an attitude, taste, demeanor, temperament, and cultivation. The so-called assertion that women marry rich men just for money and marry poor men just for love is so untenable! It seems especially unworthy of the name today! Jets Ferrad once said: "A lady from a rich family cannot marry a poor boy"! And I think: "If a woman has the opportunity, she should marry a rich man. This is not a sin!"

3. Successful men generally pay attention to grooming their appearance and avoid indecent things such as strong body odor, greasy hair, wearing trousers with sneakers, and trousers that are 3-50 mm short.

4. Successful men (if they are not busy thieves) are expected to receive romantic gifts such as flowers, candies, stuffed toys, MP3s, etc. from them, which can add spice to life.

5. You can receive a beautiful engagement ring.

6. There is no need to run around to raise a down payment for a house, and there is no need to struggle with the monthly mortgage payment.

7. No need to argue over a few cents at the market and be called a rude woman.

8. Children can expect to receive good genes and better educational conditions.

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