On the night of wedding, I found that the gentleman who usually does not like to speak is a "pornography", because he is full of pattern and old experience, so that everything is the source of the source. Because of his fanatical love for porn...

Case: My new husband makes me overwhelmed

I come from a conservative intellectual family, and I have accepted all kinds of advice from my parents since I was a child. "Safety education", looking for a boyfriend who is "not lewd", how could you never expect to meet such a man? In fact, he is usually not frivolous at all, even a little cold. I reluctantly catered to his various demands. I didn't have an orgasm. The romance of the first night was shattered by a feeling of consternation, and the bed was in a mess.

My husband, Ajia, was disgraced by me and very unhappy. He said, "I thought you must be a hottie in bed because you are so cheerful. However, you are too old and feudal. What era has it been? Oh, let’s not talk anymore, go to sleep!” The groom became impatient when I still wanted to take a shower. I was very sad. How can a bride who is not shy call her bride? I am not bold, I am coy, because I am not a bad woman.

I think it is reasonable to be shy. I have the right to be shy. Is it true that being shameless like him is real sex? I am not his, I am what he uses for love...

On the first night of our wedding, the two of us had a big fight. I was a master debater in college, and I couldn't lose to him in terms of momentum. I reasoned and presented arguments, but he felt a bit like a scholar meeting a soldier, stammering. , unable to express what we meant, and frustrated. When we were all exhausted, it was dawn!

In the days that followed, because his lust was high, he tried to please me, accommodate me, and be the groom with his tail between his legs. In fact, we are very much in love. After five years of long-distance love, we have a solid foundation for love. , I don’t hate his lingering embrace at all, it’s just that his “performance” in bed is too alternative and stage-like. But about two months later, Ajia showed his true colors again and worked brutally.

At this time, I already had some sexual experience and I didn’t blush easily, but many of his ways still made me uncomfortable. For example, in the middle of the performance, he would suddenly wake me up, half-carry, half-push me to the bathroom, and continue his performance in front of the standing mirror. He said that he liked to see the selfless love of a couple in love in the mirror. This can make him more excited, but my passion was suddenly extinguished because of his sudden pause and change of "battlefield". His pleasure was obviously based on my discomfort.

But he plausibly said: "It's all for you! Because taking a break in the middle can extend the time!" This is him. In the sexual life of husband and wife, he is always self-righteous. What I want is not the length of time. He is always very superstitious. The longer the time goes, the happier I will be. In fact, he is wrong. I don't like him deliberately "drifting" to divert his attention every time he is halfway through the work. What I want is the thrilling and joyful feeling of doing it in one go, but he doesn't believe it. . I use my brain to ecstasy. When I see the irresistible impulse, greedy lips, and fiery eyes of the man I love, I will be fascinated by him. I don't care how long he can do it. On the contrary, he just drags it out and artificially prolongs it. Time will only make enthusiasm disappear and all previous efforts be wasted.

Later, I thought, since he was so stubborn, let him go. The prodigal son will eventually turn around. However, the situation did not progress as I expected. On the contrary, he began to "require" me to do this and act that more and more, and he gradually came to dominate me.

For example, he is not afraid of being dirty or smelly. I can’t control it, so I just turn a blind eye and turn a blind eye! However, one night, when he also asked me to lick his private parts and even his anus, I became angry. I am not a street vagabond, how could I do such a "dirty" thing. The husband felt a little aggrieved and said, hadn’t he also “demonstrated” everything? I sneered: "You brought it upon yourself, and I can't help it!" But to be fair, I was uncomfortable with it at the beginning, but gradually I recognized his "cheating" and even enjoyed it. However, if he really wanted me to do it, even though I was a bit mysophobic, I still insisted on one word: "No!"

When this "request" failed, he asked me to "speak". However, he This time the tone was much more tactful: "Why do you never wake up to me? Why do you never praise my 'brother'?" I argued: "Silence is golden!" He looked at me a little innocently: "You are really It’s unreasonable. Men need women’s care and even more applause!” It makes sense. I finally humbly accepted it and occasionally did it in future sexual practices. It seemed that he was not the one either. The absurd person, sometimes, the truth is also in his hands.

However, he misjudged my attitude and thought that I had finally enlightened and could fully accept all his incredible tricks. One night, he got a nurse's uniform from somewhere and asked me to put it on. At first I didn't know what kind of medicine he was selling in his gourd, so I put it on obediently and even turned around twice in front of the standing mirror.

When I saw him taking off his clothes and leaning towards me with wrong eyes, I realized that he wanted me to play the role of a nurse and have "sexual intercourse" with him. I pushed him away angrily again, but he wouldn't let go. After a fight, I "lost" and he was very excited... He confessed afterwards that he hoped in his heart that I could play different roles in life to "fall in love" with him from time to time, such as a policewoman, a flight attendant, or even a female teacher wearing glasses... …

What I felt this time was not only surprise, but also funny. Where did he get so many ideas? Sometimes, I pity him and would act on a whim for him to "see", but I always feel awkward because I am his wife, not a clown. Why does he like some "fake and empty" things so much? Why can't he let nature take its course?

One night, I changed my itinerary temporarily while on a business trip, and suddenly wanted to go back and surprise my husband. When I quietly opened the door, I saw the scene that made me blush and feel ashamed. My husband was leaning on the sofa naked and watching a foreign third-level movie. The scene on the TV was extremely disgusting. What made me even more disgusted was that I My husband was still masturbating...

I didn’t know what to say for a moment, and was alone in the bedroom. In the middle of the night, my husband finally came in timidly and hesitantly. He explained for a long time, but I ignored him. It turned out that he had been secretly watching some Category III movies since he was a child. It can be said that he had not received any formal sex education. The sexual knowledge he "learned" all came from the things promoted in Category III movies. Therefore, in his It seems that only having sex like in a Category III movie is truly exciting and perfect.

I am very worried that my husband’s approach to sexual enlightenment may be a kind of “poisoning”? Will he one day just "make love" with pornographic discs instead of me?

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Experts have something to say

In fact, a large part of men's sexual knowledge in China currently comes from some pornographic video tapes or CDs. Obviously this kind of "knowledge" It is one-sided, exaggerated, incomplete and unscientific, because in order to pursue strong sensory stimulation, this type of porn often "superhumanizes" the sexual abilities of the male and female protagonists, which misleads some people into thinking that men are all "sex warriors" "If your various sexual "indicators" are not as "strong" as the male protagonist in the film, you are not a good man, so you often have doubts and low self-esteem. In specific practice, there is often a tendency to pursue "fake and empty" and blindly pursue so-called novel and alternative sexual skills and methods in order to strive for "similarity".

In fact, sex is only a part of love. The key is harmony and unity. This is the highest state. Only when things come naturally will it be good. Forcing others to do things that are difficult will only reduce the quality of love.

In addition, a person’s personality cannot be judged by his “sexual” style. It is ridiculous to judge people by their appearance. You may also wish to remember the following “not necessarily”: Men do not necessarily like virgins; They all like "boobs"; sex is not necessarily for both parties to climax, and the longer the sex, the better; women do not necessarily like men with strong sexual abilities... As for the husband who likes his wife to have sex in "cross-dressing", on the one hand, it is because he wants to imitate On the other hand, the protagonist's preferences in tertiary films may also be to satisfy his usual fantasies about sex partners. In reality, this purpose cannot be achieved, so he has to imagine it through his partner's cross-dressing; there is another possibility. Sex life is too boring and monotonous, and sex itself has no new ideas, so it can only be achieved through cross-dressing.

For this wife, it is also necessary to change the old concept, not to treat "sex" as an unclean thing, but also to actively try some different styles of making love."

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