Will you be happy if you compete to marry a "rich second generation"?
There is nothing wrong with a female college student marrying a rich second generation. Who doesn’t want to marry well and live a more comfortable life. But the crux of the matter is that the reason for marrying is not based on appearance or character, nor on diligence and potential. But the naked factor - money (which can save many years of struggle). There are even female college students who say without any scruples, "It is better to marry well than to do well."
I remember that when I was a child, I often heard and saw many ancient love stories. The eldest lady fell in love with a poor boy, so she broke up with the family and ran away. In the end, the poor boy succeeded in his career and the lover finally got married. In the current society, love has long been separated from the shackles of family, and history always likes to joke with people. Without the powerful parents who are blind to money, the girls themselves have lost their direction.
As for the reason, last year's hit TV series "Snail House" can give some clues. In the drama, Haiwei, who is willing to be the "mistress", lives a glorious life, while Haiqing, who marries a "poor boy" for love, But his steps were heavy. In the face of the cruel reality, "As long as I have a house, I am willing to be a mistress", "It is better to marry well than to do well", "I would rather marry Huang Shiren than the post-80s generation"... Such voices fill my ears, rising to the sky, until Today, choosing "money" has become the mainstream view for female college students to choose a spouse.
Three feet of ice does not freeze in one day. When girls see that the senior sister who married a poor boy is still struggling, but the one who married a rich man is prosperous. The views on mate selection that I had previously adhered to in my heart were gradually shaken. First, a few people expressed their feelings and were scolded. Then the society became numb, and then more girls joined in, until it became the mainstream view. Who's wrong? Female college students? Look at the society they live in, with rampant materialism and moral decay. Officials, professors, writers, lawyers... have all become slaves to money. How can we just ask female college students not to eat the fireworks of the world?
However, there is no hope for a nation that advocates money worship. In the rapidly developing Chinese society, thoughts will change every ten years, and the same goes for the concept of mate selection. In the 1970s, it was based on family background, in the 1980s, on academic qualifications, in the 1990s, on ability, now on background, and in the future... the extremes of things must be reversed, the mainstream concept It's not far off to get back on track. Thoughtful and rational female college students should know that a marriage tied to money will not be very happy. The key is to consider character and potential when choosing a mate. Don't let the momentary satisfaction blind you.
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