New people just want to show the world that their love is far higher than material life. But is this the reality? Can love survive without bread? In interviews with reporters, it was found that this was not the case. How many frank love dreams have been shattered by naked reality, leaving others with a sigh of relief.

A hasty beginning will doom a "bad" ending

Miss Zhou, 28, is already the mother of a 3-year-old child. When seeing her, the reporter was surprised by the vicissitudes of life. The change is so obvious in a woman. She was the school beauty on the high school campus, but now her face has lost its luster and she is several years older than her peers. After asking, I found out that she and her husband divorced six months ago, and now she lives alone with her children in another city. When talking about her marriage experience, Ms. Zhou burst into tears.

"He and I were classmates in college and we dated for two years. After graduation, we were still together." As soon as they graduated, Ms. Zhou and her boyfriend were very excited and thought they could really be together. Just want to get married. Later, Miss Zhou and her boyfriend secretly obtained a marriage certificate and became a legal couple, regardless of their parents' objections. "The two of us were very miserable at that time. We had no blessings from relatives and friends, no wedding ceremony, no rings, and lived in a rented house. Our life was very miserable." Despite this, Ms. Zhou still felt very happy because her husband was very good to her.

But not long after, a rift appeared between Ms. Zhou and her husband. It turned out that after two years of marriage, her husband was still as lazy as when he was in college. Later, her husband's job began to become unstable. Finally he was fired from the company. "I couldn't bear it anymore and divorced him." Thinking of this marriage, Ms. Zhou regretted it.

You still have to be serious about marriage

The theory of contradiction tells us that everything has two sides. Indeed, it is said that today's young people worship money and reality. Before getting married, they must ask each other's "worth" first. Now there is a completely opposite phenomenon. Some people regard money as dirt and love as the true meaning. However, while "naked marriage", The reality keeps hitting my soul.

“It’s a good thing not to pay attention to form, but you can’t act rashly.” Teacher Qiu from a youth friendship center in the urban area told reporters that many young people now have a misunderstanding of the meaning of “naked marriage”. If you get married with a angry attitude, such a union will not be fruitful. You don’t have to have a wedding, you don’t have to have a car or a diamond ring, but you can’t lose the most essential understanding of love.

So when you are having a "naked marriage", you must first ask yourself, will you be "hungry" without love without bread? Once one is "hungry" and one's desires begin to swell, problems will arise in a marriage. Teacher Qiu believes that "naked marriage" is not feasible, and marriage must be taken seriously and given a certain economic foundation.

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