We used to find it unbelievable, but now we regard it as a rare and common thing - leftover women and leftover men, there are so many of them, scattered all around us, that everyone has gone from being generally uncomfortable to generally accepting them. Why does the phenomenon of leftover women exist? What impact do leftover men and leftover women have on our lives? After this beautiful Spring Festival, will you continue to be a leftover girl?

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There was once a TV program called "There are so many leftover women, it’s hard not to be the third party", which talked about the current men and women in Chinese society. Although the symptoms of disproportionality are meant to be joking, they still have meaning.

Obviously, "leftover women" are not created, but "self-created". It is not made by one woman, but by the whole group of women. We are not clamoring that "leftover women" are willing to be lonely, not to fall in love, not to be first but to be last... but there are indeed too many thorns in life. Grasp what you can grasp, and don't be reluctant or impatient about what you can't grasp. Life is just one thing, and it is within their own control: to follow the true desires of their souls to the end. We can't help but ask: "Leftover women", at this moment, are you good or not? !

"Leftover women", a slightly personal and bitter word, has quietly emerged in our lives since then, and now it has gradually become a highly publicized social topic. The "leftover women" always believe that when the waves wash away the sand, all that is left behind are treasures; the best must be at the end. After the splendor, there is eventually ordinary life, and life cannot escape the curse of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. We have to admit that the age of "leftover women" does not have an accurate position, but many are approaching 30 years old, or are over 30 years old. Young women are reluctantly classified as "leftover women".

The past cardamom years and high spirits have slowly faded with the passage of time, leaving only arrogant vision and helpless loneliness. If you are lucky, you will also have a house and a car... and occasionally wander around. Get drunk at nightclubs, or join some clubs to learn yoga or aerobics, find some close friends to send your love to the mountains and rivers, use these available methods to entertain yourself, cover up the emptiness in your heart, whitewash or even advertise the petty bourgeois sentiment of "leftover women" . Faced with temptation, this is what many women who want to be married yearn for, and it is also the objective reason for the excess of "leftover women". Regarding love and marriage, their unique principles of life have destined them to linger outside the palace of marriage. Some people say that "leftover women" are not created, but "made by themselves." It is not made by one woman, but by the whole group of women.

The phenomenon of singles in China has been called a "crisis" by some media. It's a bit alarmist, but if you think about it carefully, it does have a sense of urgency. Many of the increases in singles are voluntary, or at least self-inflicted. Single life will bring more opportunities and chances to these people. Because you are single, you have more choices and a freer life to rely on. It is precisely because you are afraid of losing these that you insist on this lifestyle and refuse to get married for the sake of marriage. As for those "leftover women" who want to get married but can't find a suitable partner, repeated entanglements are their biggest headache. The criteria for choosing a mate are always two-way, just like when we are looking for a job. The key is whether you are prepared to accept an imperfect choice. Are there really so many excellent men in the world that can be found at any time? Those high-quality unmarried women definitely have enough IQ and rationality to understand this truth, but they are still unwilling to accept the reality, unwilling to make do with it, and would rather live without it. This kind of persistence itself, on the one hand, means that the desire to get married is not real. Being so strong, on the other hand, also lies in the fact that you have an independent foundation and capital, and you can be so "willful" if you have the conditions. As for those people who are unable to find a marriage partner due to various objective conditions, it does exist, but this situation occurs at any time, and it is not a special phenomenon today.

The increase in the number of singles is, in general, directly related to rapid social changes, urbanization, modernization, people's individuality, sophistication of life, and emphasis on self-feeling, etc. The development of society has caused people to put forward more stringent requirements for themselves and others, and it has also made it increasingly difficult for people to accept things that are inconsistent with themselves, especially in the field of private life. The three most popular wedding items nowadays are a car, a house, and a job, and none of them can be missing. The increasing popularity of "leftover women" not only verifies the variation and openness of China's marriage, love and gender relations, but also proves the alienation of social ethics and morals.

This seemingly unruly lifestyle will arise in almost all "prosperous times" in Chinese history, especially in areas with prosperous economies, developed cultures and high urbanization. Today, all kinds of "new" lifestyles have a profound inheritance relationship with tradition, but today they are not necessarily centered on male dominance. Women also need to obtain this "right", but the openness of marriage and gender relations is It has existed since ancient times.

Family is the basic structure of society. People with families tend to live a stable life, while single people may tend to change the content of their lives at will. Therefore, the increase in singles may mean that the basic family system is facing challenges, which in turn will cause the basic social moral order based on family ethics to be shaken and social instability factors will increase. It is an indisputable fact that there are too many "leftover women". People often say that a woman who has never given birth to a child is not a perfect woman, so what is a perfect woman without a marriage? Life is short. After squandering many years of youth, there are only bitter memories. This is not wealth, but an indelible sorrow in life. We used to find it unbelievable, but now we regard it as a common occurrence - leftover women and leftover men, there are so many of them, scattered all around us, that everyone has gone from being generally uncomfortable to generally accepting them. Why does the phenomenon of leftover women exist? What impact do leftover men and leftover women have on our lives? After this beautiful Spring Festival, will you continue to be a leftover girl?

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