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Men’s triviality is their biggest problem

One day at the bus stop: I heard two middle-aged women talking about their husbands. One of them said that my mother-in-law is like a woman, always nagging all day long.

The wife of a friend of mine is also the most annoyed by her husband's trivial matters. The wife bought a pair of shoes for the child. When he saw that they were too small, he said why not buy bigger ones? The child's feet grow the fastest, so he had to buy shoes. Bigger, that's all. When my wife picks celery, she pinches all the celery leaves to save trouble. He will say to the side that the celery leaves are nutritious and it is a pity to pinch them, and so on. His wife pointed at his nose in front of him and said, if you focus on doing big things instead of paying attention to small things, and make more money for me, we can drive a car and go out to restaurants, wouldn't there be nothing?

This is so reasonable. Not to mention her husband, even I was speechless as a spectator. From this perspective, if women don’t like men to be trivial, isn’t it a manifestation of a traditional concept that women subconsciously rely on men? ? In other words, when a woman sees the triviality of a man, this is actually a superficial appearance. In her bones, it still reveals the traditional consciousness of a woman: dependence on a man.

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Of course men have to do big things. This is the tone set by tradition for men, so men cannot and should not be trivial. But how many great things can a man do when he returns home? Therefore, he can only focus on housework, unless he is a man who doesn't love his family and doesn't care about it at all. Anyone who still cares about the family will always say something and do something. If this is considered trivial, I think the wife can have an understanding attitude. Doesn’t it mean that men and women are equal? ​​Modern men should also take care of the family. ? Since a man has done it, he should say something.

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Besides, you also need opportunities to do big things, and sometimes they are rare. I have a friend who graduated from the Department of Economics and Management of a prestigious university. In today's society, he is definitely a hot talent. However, his career is mediocre. I heard that all the positions in their unit are full, and it won't be his turn to take a seat for a while. Without a position, no matter how much you have ideas, you will be restricted by others and your talents will not be fully utilized. Later, he ran out to do business again, spotted an opportunity, and asked his wife for 20,000 yuan. My wife said something: Anyone who has the ability borrows a chicken to lay eggs. Is there anyone who can invest capital like you? Well, it’s not like a man can succeed in his big career, because this man is later criticized by his wife for being trivial. Who can you blame?

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After the World Conference on Women, Chinese women probably understood at least one thing: the number of employed women in China should be no less than that in Western developed countries. Therefore, in China, women and career women are basically equal. The vast majority of Chinese women have entered the society and entered the profession, which means that the vast majority of Chinese men may enter the family and participate in trivial housework. It is impossible for Chinese women to go home and be housewives, and it is impossible for Chinese women to Take care of all the trivial matters. Since you throw the trivial matters to men, and the men do not become resentful when accepting this trivial matters, then please give men a little understanding and tolerance as long as they are not too trivial!