If you love him, you must respect him

Wives should know: your husband is your husband, just love him, don’t compare him, don’t keep talking about other people’s husbands, Don't criticize him for being useless. You are the closest person to him. It seems inappropriate for you to say that to him. For most men, appreciation and encouragement can give him more strength to fight than insults. If you love him, you must respect him. No matter how angry you are, you can't hurt others with your words. Sometimes the wounds of words will bleed for life. Physical injuries are easily healed, but mental injuries have dire consequences.

Husbands should understand: Your wife is your wife, just feel pain, don’t compare her, don’t say she is not as beautiful as other people’s wives, don’t criticize her for not being capable enough, the dragon will match the dragon, the phoenix will match the phoenix, beautiful, You don’t have the blessings and ability to enjoy it alone, let alone “knowing that thousands of miles away, there is no rain or wind”? Women are born weak and need men’s love. Mental damage will have more consequences for them. horrible.

Wives should know: Don’t show your face to the other party, an angry woman is very ugly. He already has a lot of pressure at work, and he has no obligation to go home and look at your face to make you happy. The other person will have shortcomings in his character, and the details of his life will be different from yours, making you dissatisfied. But how can he be perfect? ​​In front of you, he has to put down his mask, be himself, and be an ordinary person. Tolerance is the proper attitude towards life and marriage. Be tolerant and considerate of each other.

Husbands should understand: Don’t treat your wife as a punching bag. A man who only tells his wife what to do is the most useless man. Your wife is the rose in your home garden, and your husband should be a specially hired full-time gardener. If the gardener does his job, the flowers will bloom more brilliantly. My wife is not a pampered rose who stays in the garden all day long. She also has to go through the baptism of wind and rain. Like men, they face society, career, and colleagues. When faced with attempts, success, and failure, they encounter more difficulties than men. , there are endless housework to be done when I get home, and there are also children’s studies and life that need to be taken care of. Can’t the husband let his wife put down her mask, be herself, and be a relaxed person?

Husbands must understand: women are also independent people and have self-esteem. The slogan for women to stand up and be liberated has been shouted for more than half a century. Why do we still have to be second-class citizens? Respecting each other and maintaining dignity are interactive and cannot be achieved through unilateral efforts. Why can't men think about it? Only vain men need false self-esteem. Only down-to-earth men can get the respect that comes from the bones of others.

Wives should know: their husband’s parents are their own parents. Compare themselves to each other, love the house as much as the family, the old man, the old man, and the old man. As long as I truly feel deep down in my heart that these are my own parents, I will be emotionally attached to the old man. , the old man will feel this sincerity. What's more, people become more like children when they get older, so just make the old people happy like children. We ourselves also grow old one day.

Husbands need to understand: their wives are also the love of their parents. They grew up by their parents pooping and peeing, and they also worked hard to cultivate them into talents. When your wife marries into your family, should you abandon your biological parents and focus on honoring your parents-in-law? Have you also used the same way of thinking to care about your heart, love your house, and fulfill your obligations as a son-in-law?

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