Many people’s first sexual intercourse is not ideal and they find it strange. However, it turns out that 99.9% of couples’ first sexual intercourse is difficult or even a failure. Moreover, there are some couples who end up parting ways because of the failure of their first sexual intercourse, which affects their relationship. Here is a typical example for everyone’s reference. I hope friends who have not yet been exposed to sex can learn from it.

First-time sexual intercourse failure case:

A boy and a girl fell in love and lived together for more than half a month. During this period, the boy made several requests for sex. The girl felt that she should not be married, so she always disagreed. Usually boys are not really angry. The strange thing is that boys get angry every Saturday because of girls' reluctance.

After the two got along, the boy would talk to the girl a lot, and finally the girl agreed to try it. But what the girl didn't expect was that it hurt so much, it was almost suffocating. After trying it a few times, the girl started to flinch, and the boy started to say that it would hurt the first time, and that it was normal, so he just had to endure it and it would be fine. But in the end, the boy loses patience and wants to bully him, and the girl will definitely resist instinctively.

As a result, the boy stopped entering and became soft! Then I became very irritable and frustrated, put on my clothes and slammed the door and walked out. The girl doesn't know how to face the boy, and she doesn't know what to do in the future. That night was traumatic for both of them, as the boy was aroused but had to stop, while the girl was frightened by the boy's reaction.

Expert analysis:

First, if a woman does not want to have sexual intercourse, she should not live in the same room and bed with the man;

Second, sexual intercourse requires learning. Especially for the first time, you need to master the basic knowledge of sexual physiological reactions. Both parties have entered the excitement period (especially the plateau period when the woman's vaginal opening is fully open), (the man's penis is fully erect, and there is exudate at the urethral opening; the woman's vagina is fully moist, and the Bartholin glands secrete lubricating fluid). This is the time The timing of penetration must be completely voluntary on both sides, especially the woman.

At the same time, we can deeply understand from this case that sex is a matter between two people, and it can only be done well if both parties are consensual. And if it is just to release one's own selfish desires without considering the feelings of the other party, then sexual intercourse will definitely fail.