Why “nice guys” are so hard to get along with
I don't believe at all that some so-called seemingly honest men can really be so honest in relationships. Consider the virtues of Xu Xian, a classic example of an honest man.
In a relationship, outsiders will always quickly identify who is the honest person. The person who likes to talk is often considered to be the culprit of bullying the other party. Once there is a problem between two people, the people next to them will always find the flamboyant person. The implication is that if the person is so honest, you must have bullied him.
You must have bullied him. How ironic this statement is.
Some men are accustomed to playing the role of being bullied in the eyes of outsiders. They will not fight back or fight back. They often show innocent expressions and silently push away all mistakes. After giving it to the other person and gaining the advantage of public opinion, the rhythm of love becomes more and more in one's own hands. Even if he does a lot of dirty things behind his back, as long as he pretends to be innocent, the whole world will blame him on the other person. People, a thousand mouths of excuses can't compare to a rubbed face, add a little bit of vague grievance, and you're just a bitch.
On the surface, this honest man always seems to be at a disadvantage, but as for the definition of a loss, I am afraid that only he himself understands in his heart what a loss is? Saying less is not a loss, and not spending a penny more is an advantage.
A certain man has been in love with a certain girl for N years, and he has always played the role of an honest person named Xu Xian. The girl is hot-tempered, but has a very warm heart. She buys him three or four, for fear that he will wear outdated clothes and not eat nutritious food. Yes, I don’t care about spending money at all. Look at this guy again. He rarely carries any money in his pocket when he goes out. He is never seen when everyone pays for meals. When he is with his girlfriend, he always uses frugality as an excuse to find someone who doesn’t have to pay for it. The standard of virtue, and that silly girl, while sighing at his virtue, was even more willing to spend money for him. Honest people are often suspicious, peeking into other people's QQ, secretly checking other people's mobile phones, and even secretly going to the telephone office to make orders to satisfy their voyeuristic desires. However, they secretly send ambiguous messages to inexplicable women, and openly flirt on blogs. Of course, , he didn’t think anything of this. The principle of honest people is: as long as you don’t grasp the scene, nothing will happen. Although a certain woman had a bit of a temper, she couldn't express her truth clearly, so she endured it again and again, and persuaded herself to forget it. When I take her home, my family members all praise her, for fear that my words of praise will not be appreciated by a certain man. There are not many good men who can educate a certain woman in front of a certain man to be with a certain man. There are not many such good men.
I have always liked generous people, no matter men or women. I always feel that generosity is the best quality of a person. People who are arrogant and arrogant and pretend to be stupid all day long and take advantage of others will never be able to take advantage of them. You should avoid him as much as possible. However, since the whole world thinks that a certain man is a good man, I can't express my opinion.
Later, a certain man suddenly broke up with a certain girl one day, and no one knew the reason for the breakup. All I know is that a certain woman received a call from a certain man, and the conversation was as follows: 1: You used to say that I have no independent opinion in doing things, but this time I will have independent opinions. Let’s break up. 2: You always lose your temper because your family is richer than mine, and you use money to pressure me. 3: Every quarrel is your fault, others have said so. 4: There is nothing wrong with me, it’s all your fault, but I did the first thing to make a decision in my life - I decided to break up.
What an impeccably honest man. It turns out that shrewdness is measured with a ruler in his heart. When he accused the other party of losing his temper because he had too much money, he forgot how much money he spent on others. Why was he enjoying other people's money when he was enjoying it? , so happy, so comfortable, so happy. He doesn't care at all whether others look down on him because he has too much money.
Oh, yes, a certain man also spent money on a certain woman. It is said that a certain man once made a fortune, and at the strong request of a certain woman, he bought her a mobile phone. From then on From now on, the mobile phone will become a great prop. Whenever there is a quarrel, or when it is time to give other gifts to his girlfriend, he will always raise his eyebrows, curl his lips, and say confidently and aggrievedly - I will buy it for you. Passed the mobile phone.
People around a certain woman have also hinted and made it clear to a certain man countless times that the two have been dating for a long time. When it is time to consider getting married, a certain man always delays using the excuse: We are still young and our future is uncertain. Falling out, the result is never clear, but I will never refuse. Walking in the ambiguity, I really think I am a slippery fish. Now, in the face of the breakup, the mysterious ambiguous attitude finally has a reasonable explanation.
In fact, breaking up is nothing. If it’s not suitable, break up. However, it would be ridiculous and stupid to blame the breakup on a certain person, just like Xu Xian’s reason-she is a snake. She has been a fucking snake for a long time. How come you don't dislike her? There is only one reason, and it is the same - fish as much as you can when you can, and then when you have almost fished, you will show a straight face of morality and righteousness. He accuses the other party of nothing, says all the bad things about his former lover, and shirks all responsibilities easily - what an honest person.
I don’t know how many Xu Xians there are in the world, and I don’t know how many heartbroken snakes there are. However, I especially hope that everyone will not be merciful when they unfortunately meet such honest people. Since he I hate you for bullying him because of your money. When we break up, please ask this bitch to account for all the money he spent on you and forget what he ate. If you still have some conscience and face, pack up the other things and pay them back. Come back, don't enjoy other people's money and complain about how rich they are at the same time. This kind of bitch only deserves to be left rotting in the fields for the rest of his life, blooming elegant and innocent flowers, waiting for the farmer to shovel them out with a hoe and throw them into the ditch. Li——Aren’t you honest?
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