When you meet this kind of person, the common sigh may be: there are hundreds of people, all kinds of people. Because people who are too trivial, whether men or women, are a deep test of your nerves. Of course, there seem to be more such trivial people among women. This kind of person may get acquainted with someone due to some chance or some unwelcome reasons. As soon as they have a few words with the person, they go straight to the other person's personal topic. She doesn't ask for the other person's opinion. When the other person is embarrassed and reluctant to answer, she will continue to go deeper. Until the other person obviously shows boredom or makes excuses to avoid him, she still has more to say. There is a folk saying, "Break the sand jar pattern (ask) to the end", which refers to the situation of only caring about one's own curiosity and not caring about other people's feelings. This kind of trivial person sometimes makes people feel like mosquitoes. I couldn't hit him for a while, and I couldn't drive him away. Being too trivial may show up as a lack of self-cultivation, but it seems that the underlying reason lies in a lack of self-confidence, to the point of being neurotic. Such people are often considered to lack common sense and spirituality. Many things that ordinary people would understand at a glance, she asked again and again, but she still didn't seem to understand. This kind of person does not understand the truth and is too stubborn. This kind of woman is not necessarily ugly, but she really has no charm at all in interpersonal interactions. Because there is less self-confidence and more blind obedience, trivial women make it easy for men to get started. But this kind of woman can easily show attachment to the man who likes her, and often cannot notice the change in the man's attitude towards her. Her triviality will make a man lose interest, and will eventually make him feel desperate and bored by her neurosis and stubbornness. When he feels that he can't stand it, he will find excuses to avoid her. When a man stops paying attention to her, she will wonder, why does he stop paying attention to me? Aren't we good? why? Why are overly trivial people annoying? First, you have to spend a lot of time talking about common sense things. You think she understands it, but then she asks the same question from another angle. Second, she is too stubborn and too neurotic, which is really unbearable. Her neurosis makes her always find questions to ask, and her stubbornness makes her always want to understand every question she asks. Third, it seems that this kind of person does not know how to respect the feelings of others, and is so curious that he wants to find out all the problems of himself and others, what he should know and what he should not know. I once met such a woman. She had a relationship with a friend of mine, but she was amorous and thought that someone else was going to divorce her wife and marry her. This woman comes to my house every chance she gets to play with my lover. Sitting there, it was like taking root and not wanting to leave. And he always likes to ask questions that others don't want to tell others. Questions one by one, I don’t know why I can ask them like this? It's embarrassing at times. But she just doesn't feel it. Later, the woman came to sit down again. He also said that if she marries my friend, she will definitely live a happy life. He also said how much money he had saved, pretending to be very proud. Then I had an idea and said that I was about to invest in a certain project and now I needed money urgently, and it was urgent, so I asked her if she could borrow the money for a hundred or eighty thousand yuan. This woman had just boasted that she was rich, and suddenly she met someone who wanted to borrow money. Didn't this accidentally make her unable to get down the stairs? After hesitating for a while, he said that his mother was in charge of the money and could not borrow it. So I said: If you think I am a liar who borrows money and refuses to repay it, don't underestimate me. Originally, this investment and borrowing money was just an excuse to punish her. Since then, this woman has stopped visiting. Recently, a woman also came for consultation. She said: A certain man suddenly stopped replying to a certain woman’s text messages. What’s the reason? I speak from experience: Either something unexpected happened, or the man expressed dissatisfaction with the woman. She said, what will happen? I said, you have to analyze specific issues in detail, and you have to talk about the specific background of the incident. She said that a woman and a man had a good relationship before, but suddenly one day, the woman sent a message to the man, and the man stopped replying. It's like not saying anything. I said, this woman must have a normal relationship with the man, right? She said: It used to be very good. I asked, are there any conflicts? She said: No. I said, since the relationship is very good, wouldn't it be better to call the man and ask him directly or go to his home and ask him directly? Although, I had already expected that the lady asking the question was originally a party to this incident, but I just didn't want to reveal it. The woman was silent for a while. Then he said, can I still send her a message? I said, if he doesn’t want to reply again, it won’t work if he sends it again. She asked again, can I call? I said: If you have anything to do, of course you can call me directly. She added: Will he pick it up? I said, you should know better than me. After asking many questions over and over again, I didn’t want to waste any more time, so I said good night and logged off. After that, this woman sent messages several times a day. Again, the question is, can I come to see her? Wait for the endless questions. Later, I suddenly recalled what I mentioned earlier and seemed to understand it all at once. Don’t I want to reply to her message? A woman who is too trivial may have had close contact with her once or twice because the man didn't understand her well, but later on, she found that the woman was too trivial and was really difficult to deal with, so he would stop paying attention to her. This is very possible. I don't mean to disparage this kind of woman. But being a woman shouldn’t be too trivial, especially if you want to be a woman who can adapt to modern society, you must constantly strengthen your studies, cultivate your own interests, increase your understanding of emotions, and make yourself more confident. To a certain extent, only a woman who transcends trivial matters can become grand and interesting. If you allow yourself to become a boring or even boring woman, you will definitely lose your charm and you will easily wither prematurely.

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