Reader Zhou XX

Answer: This very interesting phenomenon exists. I think it is due to the different psychological characteristics of the sexes.

Due to the influence of social culture, men have greater pressure and responsibilities, so they are generally more rational and think more realistically. Regarding the question of "love or not", it is relatively difficult for rational people to answer, because "love" is an abstract concept, and everyone has their own understanding. Serious men will seriously think about this question and think about how to answer it (like Specific questions such as "Are you willing to buy me clothes?" men will definitely find it much easier to answer).

Secondly, many men believe that love includes responsibility, so when he does not know how much responsibility he can really bear for the other person, he will find this question difficult to answer and hope to avoid it. Otherwise, if you make a promise, you must do what you say. If you can't do it, it will be troublesome for the other party to entangle you (some playboys often talk about "love" because they don't care whether they can do it or not).

Third, rational men will find it boring to answer "I love you" repeatedly. It is enough for you to hear it once, so why say it again and again?

Women are more emotional. They only ask this question because they want to hear their boyfriend answer yes without hesitation. In fact, many women do not carefully distinguish the authenticity of men's answers. What they want is this feeling of "being loved". Because they want to get a good feeling, it is necessary for them to take the trouble to ask questions repeatedly. Of course, when men hesitate or refuse to answer, they will definitely feel shocked and think that the other person does not love them.

Therefore, if the man really loves his girlfriend and is willing to take responsibility for her, please don’t hesitate to say “I love you”, and it is best to respond quickly and happily. She will definitely be very satisfied. of.

But then again, why do women have to force their boyfriends to say "I love you" without thinking? Wouldn’t it be more reliable to watch his actions?

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