Why is sexual desire so strong? Teach you 3 major coping strategies
Why is sexual desire so strong? Having too strong a sexual desire may lead to hypersexuality. Hypersexuality is a disease. In addition to endocrine disorders, the cause of the disease may also be caused by increased excitability and decreased inhibitory effect of the cerebral cortex, such as manic psychosis, menopausal psychosis, etc. Sexual function is different just like everyone's physical strength, and the strength of sexual desire also varies greatly.
Even for the same healthy woman, there will be obvious differences in different age groups and different physical conditions. When newly married or reunited after a long separation, women's sexual needs may be stronger. As married women grow older, their sexual desire will continue to increase, reaching a peak around the age of 40, so it is difficult to define hypersexuality.
But as long as you don’t feel low on energy after sex, it doesn’t affect your work and life, and both husband and wife are satisfied, it’s within the normal range. However, if for no reason, a woman suddenly has frequent and strong sexual requirements, excessive sexual excitement, and cannot control herself, she may have to have sex multiple times a day to be satisfied, or it may occur during kissing or hugging. When you have a strong sexual excitement and climax, and you cry, curse, and make noise when your goal is not achieved, you should consider whether you have hypersexuality.
Teach you 3 major coping strategies
First: Resist temptation and purify sources of stimulation.
Pornographic books, periodicals, and obscene audio are spiritual opium, the source of evil that induces sexual impulses and instigates improper behavior. If you are not vigilant, you are most likely to be captured. Therefore, it is particularly important to consciously resist temptation, avoid reading or listening to sexually stimulating books, periodicals, audio and video, and purify the sources of stimulation around you. In your spare time, you might as well read more natural sciences, social sciences or learning-related books, and naturally your mind will not be distracted.
Second: Cushioning and shock absorption, weakening impulse.
Love is extremely magical and wonderful. Its beauty lies in mystery and haziness. It has strong attraction and temptation, making people desire and dream. Men and women who have been together day and night for a long time will inevitably fall in love over time. When one party becomes impulsive and cannot control his or her feelings, it is best for the other party to patiently persuade and politely refuse. Use your wisdom to weaken his or her impulsive desires. Do not be ambiguous, accommodating, or aggrieved. Let him (her) regain his senses under your buffering and shock-absorbing effect, face reality calmly, and avoid unfortunate things from happening.
Third: Stay rational and strengthen self-control.
People are not otherworldly gods, nor do they live in a peach blossom garden. They cannot have no desires. But human impulses are subject to moral constraints, and human will can completely defeat the instinctive desires of the human body. Strengthening self-control exercises can help you control your desires. Generally speaking, a person who is reserved, rational, and has strong self-control tends to have a cheerful personality, broad interests, positivity, good moral qualities, and relatively good life rhythms and habits.