Why is it that "a good man never has a good wife"?
"A good man doesn't have a good wife, and an ugly man marries a beautiful woman." This kind of thing is not uncommon. Handsome boys often find girls around them who are not very satisfactory in appearance, while ugly men often find beauties in their arms. Why is there such a big contrast?
1. Beautiful women are lazy, squeamish, and ugly women are diligent and take care of the family.
Beautiful women are often petite, lazy and homely, and they can also spend money. Although they are beautiful and delicious, they often cannot give Men provide too much help in career or family, and the "excessive" beauty may even make men suspicious and jealous, which is very worrying; and those ugly women, although God has given them less attractive appearance, but But she is very beautiful and kind on the inside. Being able to "walk in the hall and in the kitchen" will give men a lot of support and help, and can also make men feel at ease. And quite a few men, especially traditional men, tend to be very rational. They don't care about beauty and sexiness. In their eyes, finding a beautiful vase with the same decoration is far worse than finding a smart and capable ugly girl. "Affordable".
2. Beautiful men are arrogant and ugly men sincerely understand love
Let’s objectively analyze men, “ugly men” and “handsome men”. Handsome men have been sought after since childhood because of their natural beauty and ruffian nature. The opposite sex is in the palm of your hand, so you are somewhat arrogant, and you don’t know how to cherish, consider, understand and tolerate the other person, and don’t know how to listen to women’s voices. Then, such a man, in addition to being good-looking, is also What's the use? But ugly men are not. Although they are not good-looking, they can be very sincere. They often know how to love the women around them, know how to take the initiative to care about and comfort the opposite sex, and they also know how to think about the other person's thoughts. In this way, naturally will be favored by girls. In this case, as long as you are nice to her and trustworthy, the beautiful girl will also be moved by it.
3. Beautiful women are condescending and ugly women seize the opportunity
Beautiful women are often simple, and they also have the "emperor's daughter has no worries about marrying", so naturally they will not take the initiative and deliberately When pursuing others, they will not pay too much attention to the presence of handsome guys, let alone pay attention to an irrelevant man; no matter how naturally beautiful they are, they will also be shy, so the way they express love is more tactful and profound, and Silly men don't have too many illusions, so they don't dare to narcissistically think that she will be attracted to him. In this way, handsome men will often slip away from him and be given to ugly women. Golden opportunity.
4. Beautiful men fall for love, ugly men rise for love
Because handsome guys tend to be accompanied by beauties because of their appearance since junior high school and puberty. In this way, their focus will inevitably shift to their emotions. On the contrary, those ugly guys are much "cleaner" around them and have no distracting thoughts in their hearts. , so he turned his focus to his studies and career, just to get ahead, and it would not be too late to find a lovely wife by then. Therefore, among successful people, there are very few handsome ones. Basically, they are all "ugly men." Factual observation and statistics are undeniable. That is, those rich people who own houses, cars, and even worth over 100 million are all "ugly men." Most of them are men, and the handsome ones basically have mediocre careers. So what about today's women? Especially beautiful women, pampering has become a habit, which is also very realistic. They hope that they will have no worries about food and clothing in the future, so they change from pursuing "Prince Charming" to relying on "Prince BMW".
5. Beautiful men are afraid of being rejected and thus losing opportunities
Once a woman is too beautiful, no matter in appearance or figure, no matter inside or outside, from beginning to end, she is so pure and pure, then It is like a lotus flower that has not yet bloomed, so it gives people the feeling that "you can watch it from a distance but dare not play with it". Those handsome men, because they have been "spoiled" since childhood, often rarely suffer the blow of broken love, or some men have only dumped people and have no experience of being dumped; so once they meet a beautiful woman, they often dare not approach her , because they always overestimate the "strength" of the other party, so they are afraid that the other party will refuse casually and make themselves lose face, or some are arrogant and never take the initiative to "pursue". So, they lost their opportunity.
6. Ugly men have no scruples but can hug beautiful women
Some ugly men who are "embattled on all sides" have no hope anyway. In short, whoever they pursue has a high chance of failure. It's better to "fight to the death". In this way, they will take the initiative to get close to beautiful women; and those beautiful women who are empty around them are often very simple. Ugly men also have attractions and strengths that make her happy. In addition, they love her very much, so they die. How could the beautiful woman not give in to her pursuit of pestering and beating indiscriminately?
However, although "a good man has no good wife", this also proves that God will still be as fair as possible. Otherwise, if all men are matched with beautiful women, and ugly men are matched with ugly women, then wouldn't our descendants have to Have you hated us all your life?
Actually, families can have any kind of parents, so there is no need to pursue external things too much, as long as they feel comfortable with each other. There is a saying that goes well: It’s not that you are bad or that I am bad, it’s that we are not suitable.
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