According to the "China Youth Daily" report, recently, the China Youth Daily Social Survey Center has implemented a survey on the method of choosing a mate selection of young people through the CCTV Information Epanel member survey platform. young people participated. Among them, 58.6% of people believe that "the scope of communication is too narrow" is the main reason why they or the people around them are still single. In addition, 45.1% and 27.1% of people chose "the goal is too high" and "too busy at work and have no time" respectively. On the one hand, communication and transportation are becoming more and more convenient, but on the other hand, young people feel that their communication scope is getting narrower and narrower. Someone complained, "Young people today seem to have a lot of friends around them, but there are too few people they know, can talk to, and can truly be considered friends. During the holidays, we used to walk around each other, but now we can do it all with just one text message." ".

It turns out that as science and technology become more and more developed and society becomes more and more progressive, the quality of life may also become lower and lower.

In the past, people only knew that technology controlled us in the material world: for example, a telephone, BB machine, and mobile phone were enough to pull us out from any corner of the world and throw us in front of anyone; for example, chemical fertilizers, hormones Anything produced, together with genetically modified foods, can easily occupy our dining tables; for example, micro bugs, see-through telescopes, and pinhole cameras that can be seen everywhere in the streets are quietly sneaking into our privacy unknowingly... People have already lived Under siege from the side effects of technological progress, there is nowhere to hide.

Now it seems that in the spiritual world and the emotional world, it has not let us go. Every inch that technology advances, our living space shrinks by one foot. Let’s not talk about the distance, let’s talk about the Internet. It is said that it has brought people a whole new world. But in fact, people have regressed in the real world. What is missing is not just a world, but they can’t even speak Chinese well. Having said that, let alone other things. With a mobile phone and a computer, people can experience things far away or close at hand. The impact of communication and the Internet on marriage is not only changes in methods, such as online love, online marriage, online one-night passion, SMS jokes, SMS love, SMS spam, but also promotes the destruction of traditional marriage, love and moral standards. . If the means are too flexible, the heart will be less sincere and trustworthy. In the past, the scope of people's communication was also narrow, and they did not know everyone in the world. However, because they had a basic trust system (such as outlook on life and values) and trust channels - or trust in the organization, or trust in the seven aunts and eight aunts, marriage and love The order is basically stable; but now "trust" is lost, which is the most critical. No one trusts anyone anymore, there is no organization anymore (even if there is one, there is no trust), and there are no seven aunts or eight aunts anymore. Due to the outdated social norms, a large number of things that are not only ugly but also challenge the bottom line of human ethics are happening in society every day. After the high-density dissemination of information platforms, it is inevitable to plant seeds deep in everyone's heart. The seeds of self-defense. Among them, young people are the most vulnerable to impact because they are the most sensitive and have the most fragile values. Coupled with the mobility of the population and the unfamiliarity and alienation of interpersonal relationships, people do not have a unified belief platform in terms of religion, culture, morality, etc. Therefore, it is difficult to find or have a common base. This is the core factor behind their so-called "busy work" and so-called "narrow communication". For them, loneliness is often no longer a choice, but a passive acceptance.

As for office romance, there is indeed no solution. However, under normal circumstances, many companies do not allow co-workers to have romantic relationships, because they are not only afraid of affecting the working atmosphere, but also afraid of affecting the comfort of others. Leaving aside the work perspective, office romance is also problematic. For a marriage, it is a positive and good thing for two people to have a common social circle to a certain extent; but if this circle is too consistent, it will be detrimental to the family. The positive effect will be reduced. Externally, it may suffer a loss, but internally, it may lack new ideas. "You know everything I know, and you don't know what I don't know." This is always a test for a married life that loves the new and hates the old.

The spaceship has taken to the sky, and society has "evolved" to the point where anyone who takes off their clothes can call it performance art and win tolerance. However, people are becoming more and more lost and confused about what love is. Questions such as how to love and whom to love are close to the origin of life. It cannot but be said to be a kind of ridicule. well.

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