There is no unified standard for the age of falling in love sooner or later. As far as the actual situation in our country is concerned, whether to fall in love early or not must be determined by the following two characteristics. One is the degree of independence in life. Some teenagers are full of childishness, their lives and finances are still under the supervision and protection of their parents, they are still in the intense stage of learning cultural skills, and they know little about society, so they can't wait to fall in love, which is too early. It seems that people are more accepting of 18- and 19-year-old workers falling in love, but it is different if 18- and 19-year-old students fall in love. This is considered from the aspects of their economic status and social occupation. The second is the gap between the age of dating and the legal minimum age. If it has reached or is close to the legal minimum marriage age, it is not considered puppy love; if it is still far from the legal minimum marriage age, it should be regarded as puppy love. Because the legal minimum age for marriage is set based on the physical and psychological development of teenagers. Judging from the above two standards, then falling in love among students in high school and below should be regarded as puppy love. Because they are not yet financially independent, their lives are not yet completely self-reliant; their age is still far from the legal minimum age for marriage; of course, they are also psychologically immature. Such a girl who is growing both physically and mentally will have many problems if she falls in love. (1) Affect learning and obliterate ideals. Every young person has his or her own ideals and grand ambitions, and they all aspire to become useful talents in society, even pillars of society; the realization of any ideals and ambitions cannot be achieved without hard work and learning knowledge. Young girls aged 17 or 18 are the best period to lay the foundation for growth and development in all aspects. It can be called the golden age. Girls in this period are full of youthful vitality, energetic, active thinking, strong memory, and extremely sensitive to new things. It is the best period to learn scientific knowledge and improve various abilities. Therefore, every young person should go all out and study hard to lay a solid foundation for building the motherland and climbing the peak of science in the future; he should establish lofty ideals in life, strive to cultivate and temper his will, and shape a beautiful mind. In order to benefit mankind and realize the value of your life to the maximum extent, make all preparations. If you are entangled in love problems during this period, it will definitely distract your study energy and waste your good time. This is tantamount to disregarding your great future in life. This so-called love is very likely to ruin the talents, careers and prospects of young people, and they will regret it later. (2) It is extremely detrimental to the psychological maturity of teenagers. When teenagers fall in love early, they know that they will be criticized and criticized by their parents and other people in society, so they have to hide and stay away from people. If this continues, it will affect the relationship with classmates and family members. At the same time, they will have a lot of burden on their minds, which affects the normal development of teenagers' psychology. Some will even change their personalities. Girls who were originally lively and innocent will become withdrawn, cold, and psychologically beyond their age, which is extremely detrimental to healthy growth. (3) Treating love carelessly will lead to lifelong bitter consequences. The reason why love is called a lifelong event means that it plays an important role in life. However, because young people are not deeply involved in the world, have insufficient experience, lack of life experience, and lack of sufficient understanding of society, emotions trump reason. Therefore, when distinguishing between people and things, and when dealing with interpersonal relationships, they often act hastily, and their emotions overwhelm their rationality. If they establish a love relationship with the opposite sex, in the future, as their psychology changes, develops, and matures, they may have a negative impact on the other person. dissatisfaction, and then cool down or interrupt the relationship between each other. This situation will cause disappointment in teenagers, make them depressed, and even form psychological barriers, thus affecting the healthy development of teenagers' spiritual life. (4) Excessive behavior leads to crime. Puppy love among teenagers is mostly due to emotional impulse or the mystery and curiosity of the opposite sex. This sense of mystery and curiosity makes them blindly imitate adults. When teenagers' strong curiosity and emotional impulse join forces, the very fragile rational defense line will be overwhelmed. In this case, excessive behavior often occurs, which may even cause irreparable losses and cause psychological trauma to young people. If you are tempted by pornographic books or abettors at the same time, you are very likely to become morally corrupt or commit a crime. According to surveys, one-third of juvenile delinquents have premature love. A survey in a certain province showed that among the reasons for crime, those related to the pursuit of sexual stimulation accounted for 22% of the people surveyed. The flower of love is holy. Only those who understand it correctly and cherish it at a certain age can cultivate it and make it bloom forever with the water of sincerity. For teenagers, when the soil for the growth of love is not yet available, the wisest way is to build a line of defense, concentrate on learning scientific and cultural knowledge, and refuse to accept and spread the seeds of love.​ This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.