For many men, the advantage of marriage is that they will always have a place of their own. The problem is that they can only have this one place. Therefore, men always delay, not wanting to imprison themselves in marriage prematurely. A recent study by German psychologists found that the reason why many men are unwilling to get married before the age of 25 is because their brains are not fully developed at this time.

If a man doesn’t get married, a woman can’t wait and has to break up

26-year-old Mengmeng and her boyfriend just broke up not long ago. The reason is very simple - the woman has reached the age of marriage, and the man I haven't wanted to get married for a long time. Unable to wait, I had to break up. "He said it's not that he doesn't love me, but if I ask him to get married now, it's better to hold a knife to his neck. I really don't understand why men have to wait until they are 30 before getting married. Maybe they want to have a few more years. Give yourself more opportunities to choose."

In this regard, Mengmeng's boyfriend Xiao Peng explained that he does not want to get married now because he is not mentally and materially prepared. "We are not qualified to get married at all. We don't have a house or a car. How can we get married? Besides, I just graduated from graduate school. I always feel that I am still a child and how can I afford a family." At the same time, Xiao Peng said frankly that he and Mengmeng It does require more break-in time.

People who dare not get married have character weaknesses

Either "flash marriage" or delaying marriage, men nowadays seem to deliberately antagonize women. The following analysis is made on the mentality of men who insist on not getting married before the age of 25:

First of all, some of them are more mature and more cautious about marriage. "Compared with people who have 'flash marriage' or 'flash divorce', they understand the meaning of marriage to a person better, so they will not make hasty decisions." But at the same time, these people usually show hesitation and hesitation in doing things in their daily life. Character weaknesses such as foresight and foresight. "When this kind of personality is applied to relationships, it is easy to lose true love."

Secondly, for some people, the reason for not wanting to get married is because they want to keep trying to find a woman who is truly suitable for them. As Xiao Peng said, "It's easy to find a girlfriend, but you have to be careful when looking for a wife." It is in this process of frequent changes that they hurt too many women, and in the end they are often dazzled and difficult to find. My own "true princess".

Finally, men’s late marriage is a product of the times. "In modern society, most people choose to live together before marriage, so whether they get married or not is just a piece of paper." Many people are unwilling to get married because they are afraid of taking on post-marital responsibilities. After all, getting married means that you have to take on the responsibilities of two people. The responsibility of a family is what many men want to escape, especially the only children.

Women, don’t be emotional

In the face of age and marriage, men obviously have an advantage. So, as a woman, when faced with a man who has not wanted to get married for a long time, do you wait patiently, or turn around and leave in a pretentious manner? Song Yumei believes that while love is supreme, women must not lose their reason. "You have to know what kind of man you are dealing with, and what kind of marriage you need."

"Among the interviewees I contacted, when cynical men don't want to get married, , some women will insist on not letting go for the sake of a relationship that lasts for several years. In fact, there is no result in continuing at this time, and the one who will be hurt the most is herself. "This kind of woman only falls in love, so it is better to keep herself. The last bit of dignity and reserve left.

If you are sure that this man is worth waiting for for several years, then it doesn’t matter if you get married in a few years. "However, this must be based on your mutual trust, and at the same time, don't ignore the changes that time has on people." Song Yumei reminded that the killer of love is sometimes not an affair, but time.

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