The famous Russian psychologist Kerrina Multazarova once said that women have a lot of misunderstandings about men, such as men should take the initiative; men like their mouthlessness and straightforward rates woman; the worse you treat a man, the better he treats you. In fact, it's just the opposite...

Some couples who were childhood sweethearts gradually changed their appearance after marriage. Husband and wife quarrel over trivial matters. What makes a woman most sad is that her husband no longer loves her in every possible way. Dr. Yuan Hong from the Psychological Research Institute of the Armed Police General Hospital reminded that no matter what personality a woman has, she should show weakness in the family at the right time. This will impress her husband and eliminate the estrangement.

Stubborn woman: put down her dignity and ask for foreign help

Case:

Yajie's marriage collapsed within a year. It turns out that Yajie's marriage collapsed due to the intervention of a woman. From the day she knew this fact, she has always maintained an attitude - she would rather break than bend.

But in the end, Yajie got the man's confession: I'm sorry for you, I know you are strong, she is weaker than you, and she needs me more than you. What makes Yajie sad is that he didn't understand her until the divorce. In fact, she seemed strong but was also very fragile inside.

Expert tips:

If a woman is too strong, the men around her will not show their importance. Yajie is a good example. Although as outsiders, we cannot explore who is right and wrong, but when she discovered her husband's affair, Yajie showed patience and stubbornness. Although "sane", she was not "smart" enough.

In fact, in love, if you refuse to bow to a man, refuse his care, etc., the consequences of doing so will not only make you scarred, but also cause you to cry alone. In fact, she should take the initiative and seek help from a marriage expert in a timely manner. Under the guidance of the expert, she should show weakness to the person she loves most in the most appropriate way and seek his understanding, thereby saving the marriage.

Aggressive woman: quickly change roles after returning home

Case:

The beautiful Xiaoxue is a beauty with a doctorate. The standards for dating back then were not high - she was sincere, enterprising and motivated, so she chose civil servant Xiao Zhang. However, less than three years after their marriage, Xiaoxue looked down on Xiao Zhang more and more. Seeing her peers starting to buy bungalows in cars, Xiao Zhang would rather live contentedly in a tube building, which made Xiaoxue angry. Come everywhere, throw pots and basins.

She would rather travel away from home for a long period of time than stay with her husband who does not seek to make progress, which ultimately "broke" her fragile marriage. Today, Xiao Zhang is still contentedly living a simple and ordinary life, and has married a gentle and loving wife. But Xiaoxue, who was alone, didn't know where she went wrong.

Expert tips:

A woman who is too smart and too independent makes it difficult for men to feel warm and share romance with her. It is recommended that this kind of aggressive strong woman should quickly change roles at home and learn to restrain her excessive ambition and self-esteem in front of her lover. Conflicts between husband and wife must not be resolved by showing off. Even if the husband's behavior is inappropriate, he can still pretend to be confused. Therefore, the more successful a woman is in her career, the more she must know how to show weakness. Less fussing will make it easier for men.

Innocent woman: Tears are the best protection

Case:

Xiaobai, who is now a wife and mother, is more charming and charming than before. When it comes to marriage, Xiaobai, who can't help but look happy, says that in fact, there have been problems in marriage life. In Xiaobai's words, it was because he was "stupid" that he never lost his husband's love. When she was newly married, her husband naturally spent more time with her, which made her mother-in-law who lived with her very dissatisfied. So as long as the husband is not at home, the mother-in-law will instruct Xiaobai to do this and that, fearing that Xiaobai will rest. As soon as her son comes home, the mother-in-law will start working, and she will be so tired that she will say that it hurts here and that she feels uncomfortable there. , letting her son take care of her while busy.

She also went to her son to complain about her daughter-in-law, saying that she only knew how to take care of children but did not know how to respect the elderly. Faced with all this, Xiaobai never said a word. During the day, she smiled at her mother-in-law and devoted herself to doing housework, but at night she hid in her husband's arms and secretly cried. In fact, touching Xiaobai's rough hands, how could the husband not know Xiaobai's suffering? This is how Xiaobai finally won the acceptance of her mother-in-law and the love of her husband.

Expert tips:

The best protection against harm is your smile. Whether he is furious or misunderstands you, you must use a tolerant heart to tolerate him, remain unchanged in response to changes, and always smile calmly, then in the end he will only cherish you in his heart. A woman's shyness and good use of tears are definitely magic weapons that make men pity her to the bottom of her heart. Silently shedding tears can touch your husband's heart more than crying loudly. In fact, the happiest woman is the woman who can make her husband call her "stupid". A happy marriage requires a woman to constantly adjust. When she is passionate, it is as scorching as the sun, making her lover unable to help herself; when she is weak, like a bud, it is even more heart-pounding.

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