A survey found that love between men and women can only last three months at most. As couples enter marriage, the mystery and freshness before marriage gradually disappear, and both parties will reveal their truest sides, and distance can create Beauty, in order to create this kind of beauty and increase the love between two people, a certain distance should be kept between husband and wife. Everyone needs some space, not just physical space but mental space as well. Without this space, love cannot develop freely.

So, why does maintaining distance between couples enhance their relationship?

First, you cannot lose social relationships after getting married

If you start a family, you cannot lose your social circle. No one can lack friends in life. In many cases, the care of friends is more helpful than that of relatives, and it is better than the relationship between husband and wife. Furthermore, deep friendships are often more sincere and lasting than love. However, once there is love, some people no longer care about friendship. Especially women, once they have a boyfriend or husband, they will be addicted to the happiness of a small family. Therefore, in real life, most people who complain about not having friends after marriage are mostly women.

Second, making more friends will make you healthier physically and mentally

No one can live without making friends. A friend is someone who can support you, someone who can share the ups and downs of life with you, someone who can communicate with you and bring you a sense of security. With the support of friends, no matter how difficult life is, you can still get support, which can relieve stress. Living with friends can make people healthier physically and mentally. In addition, you can share your inner feelings with friends, which neither your relatives nor your husband can talk about. When friends share with you, you can help and support each other, thereby broadening your horizons and enriching your life experience. .

Third, don’t force the other person to enter your circle of friends

When you get married, your free single life will end. This change is inevitable. Before, everyone had their own various life circles, but after marriage, is it necessary to tie up the life circles of two people? It is undeniable that we met for the first time before, maybe because we have some overlapping circles of common friends. However, many people ask each other to join their circle of friends so that they can fully understand each other's every move, resulting in the loss of personal space. There are no more secrets between each other, and there is no sense of mystery anymore. In the long run, this is very detrimental to the emotional development between each other, so it is best to keep a certain distance between each other. It is not necessary to completely grasp all the dynamics of the other party. Give the other party some freedom and pay more attention to the sense of mystery. This will make it more romantic. It is conducive to the stability of the relationship between both parties.

In short, there must be a certain amount of personal space between husband and wife. No matter how good the relationship is, a certain distance is required. An appropriate distance can provide more freedom and increase a sense of mystery, which is more conducive to the relationship between two people. Relationships last longer and are more stable.