Why am I falling out of love? Because you are an ordinary person living in an ordinary society.

Ms. Sendra M. Lam, the author of the book "Love - The Poetry of Frustration", once conducted a cross-ethnic open-ended questionnaire survey on women's lovelorn experiences through the Internet. In order to avoid passing children over Every family is also included, and she sets the starting and ending age of the statistics at 17-35 years old. The survey received a total of more than 1,900 valid questionnaires, and the results showed that Western women between the ages of 17 and 35 fell in love an average of 3.62 times, while Eastern women fell in love 1.71 times. Among them, the country where women have the least experience of love breakup is India. Only one person out of 14 questionnaires has experienced love breakup. Don't be too busy being envious. After spending a few days in India, you will know that all Hollywood love movies are lies. Caste is very strict there, and free love is not popular yet!

Lovelorn? several times? Once means it’s far from the best, twice is just right, three times is lower than the world average, and more than four times means it’s time to change the question – “Why am I always the one who is lovelorn?” The answer is very simple, because it’s hypocritical! I've been broken up four times and haven't learned to take things as they come. Isn't this hypocritical?

Why is love so fragile?

The reason why Mr. Maslow became one of the originators of modern psychology is because he successfully arranged the hierarchy of human needs in 1968: "Physiology→Safety→Love→Respect→Self-actualization". These five levels are arranged from low-level to high-level. The lower-level needs are more powerful, and the higher-level needs are more scarce. Do you now see love’s awkward place among human needs? In terms of necessity, it is not as good as physiology and safety, and in terms of scarcity, it is not as good as respect and self-realization. It is neither better nor worse, neither indispensable nor grand.

So in "I Really Want to Fall in Love", the hungry and anxious Mauna snatching the poet's piece of dry bread is not a fall in love, but a purely normal reaction in which physiological needs are greater than love needs.

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