Before it evolves into a matrilineal society, the phenomenon of women hiding private money may not be changed for a while, especially in areas where economic activities are more developed or where women’s status is lower. A survey shows that an average of 20% of women have the habit of "hiding secrets". Among them, 38% of Japanese women admitted to hiding private money, which is the highest proportion among many countries surveyed. On the other hand, French women were the most "honest", with only 7.2%.

The reason is that first, the more men are in an environment where entrepreneurship is booming and business opportunities are unlimited, the more developed the "achievement mania" gene in their "social male hormones" will be. They often laugh and laugh. : "I'm not getting married today", implying that you can play with the flowers, which will inevitably bring various shadows to the marriage. Under the impression that "her husband will leave at any time", women who have prepared a way out for themselves or have revenge on their minds will take the first step - to accumulate private money. At the same time, it is also used to "tighten" men's pockets to prevent men from loosening their "belts" casually. This is all due to women's insecurity about marriage.

Secondly, the overwhelming demand that "women should love themselves more" leads to the fact that even if women have the ability to be self-sufficient, they have to continue to put as much money into their pockets as possible to feel at ease. Moreover, in a woman's mind-set, if a man is keen on hiding private money, most of it will be squandered by another woman. At this time, the "dregs" wife has to peel off a layer of her husband's skin first, so as not to let the rich water fall into the hands of others.

Then there is the social custom of male superiority and female inferiority. Overtly, it is difficult for women to surpass men in economic strength, but secretly, of course, they have to reserve resources and take care of their capital. This is human nature. Women in Japan and France both "hide their secrets". China's equality level is no less than that of advanced countries, but women's emotional insecurity is higher than theirs. I believe most of them are well aware of whether they belong to the "hiding their secrets". Therefore, there is a relationship between women hiding private money and men's achievement mania, and it can be said that the latter will increasingly influence the former. However, women definitely take the greatest credit for pushing men towards a "sense of achievement". In the end, Women themselves use "hiding private money" to feel at ease.

In fact, the way to get along between the sexes should go back to how men and women can unite the centripetal force in the management of family relationships and improve the quality and quantity of their coexistence, instead of always comparing themselves to others, and then naturally "what's mine is yours" ” and will not become a “spy-on-spy” fortification.

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