I believe many people have discovered that when men and women have sex, most women prefer to close their eyes instead of opening them, while men prefer to keep their eyes open. So why do women like to close their eyes during sex?

During sex, the performance of men and women must be different. Men like to turn on the lights, but 99% of women like to turn off the lights or dim them. Men like to keep their eyes open, but women like to close their eyes... even if the method There are various differences, but it cannot be denied that both parties are invested in sex. Men like to open their eyes and look at women not only to get visual pleasure, but more importantly to observe the expressions on women's faces and women's reactions, so as to infer and determine whether their actions are effective, and get psychological benefits from them. Contentment and spiritual pleasure.

Women like to close their eyes, especially when enjoying sex. When they feel pleasure, they will close their eyes unconsciously. Of course, they will still open their eyes occasionally, and for a period of time after climax , still unwilling to open their eyes, does this mean that women don’t actually enjoy sex? Not satisfied with men's performance? Isn’t it better to be less involved in the sex process than men? In fact, there is something mysterious about a woman making love with her eyes closed.

First of all, I believe that in most sex lives, men will be in the dominant position. In addition to exerting effort, it is also necessary to observe the performance of women so that they can make adjustments to their movements and behaviors at any time. So relatively speaking, when it comes to sexual life, women's responsibilities have become relatively smaller. This also allows women to focus more on psychological activities, experience and enjoy sexual feelings, and of course they will have a better experience when they close their eyes.

During the sexual life of women, the inner activities of women never stop for a moment. The content of their imagination is not completely unrelated to the ongoing sexual life, but since it is imagination, it will not be related to the ongoing sexual life. The objective repetition of reality is more of a beautification of reality. For example, if the environment is not good during sex, they can imagine that they are under the blue sky and white clouds; if the other person's movements are not ideal, they can imagine that they are fascinated by those movements; if they are in a bad mood during sex, they can Imagine that you are in a very good mood; you can even imagine that you have been greatly satisfied when your sexual feelings are average.

When they are performing these mental activities, everything becomes more beautiful. Closing their eyes can better allow them to immerse themselves in their imagination. The imagination is so beautiful, but as soon as you open your eyes, reality returns and the gap becomes bigger, so why do you need to let the beauty you have finally built up be broken?

In the final analysis, this kind of psychological imagination is actually a sexual fantasy, and it is also a way to obtain a higher-quality sex life. Sexual life is colorful, and sexual imagination is a behavior encouraged by experts. At the same time, you can also make the imagination a little more bizarre, exaggerated, and unreal. For example, imagine that you are having sex with a favorite star, or imagine that you are in a sexual situation. A certain novel or TV plot. These imaginations only exist in our own minds. In our imaginations, the other person will always be attractive.

Research on sex has confirmed that the more bizarre and illusory the sexual fantasy is, the smaller the adverse impact it will have. The more real the sexual fantasy is, the greater the threat to real sexual partners. . For example, you can imagine yourself having sex with a movie star, but you cannot imagine yourself having sex with your friends, colleagues, etc. This is definitely a red flag.