If a man is a bit bad, he likes women best. This has been the case since ancient times. Some people will ask whether a man who flirts is a bad man. The answer is definitely wrong. If a man doesn't flirt with others randomly, then he is a good man. "The problem mainly lies with men. They often only think about satisfying women's material pursuits and ignore spiritual needs." Zhang Xiaoping, secretary-general of the Beijing Psychological Research Association, said, "The so-called kind of men that women like 'Bad' is actually a kind of fun."

A man went out to work. After a year, he returned home, and the couple couldn't wait to enjoy the "fun". In the past, their sex life was straightforward, but the wife discovered that the man had a lot more foreplay this time and actually started flirting. Although the wife thought that the man was "bad", she felt physically stimulated like never before.

Zhang Xiaoping said that human nature is the same, they all like novelty and change. But Chinese men are often very conservative, suppressing their emotions and not expressing them. The women in the story represent many women. They like men to be "bad" and have more fun and tricks, but they just don't say it. Men are often blinded by women's performance, or they are also bound by traditional ideas. , unwilling or unable to flirt with women. If things go on like this, it will result in men being "nice" and women not liking them.

Of course, what women like to be "bad" is not just in sex life.

A plot in a certain TV series is very representative. It was the wife's birthday and her husband gave her a gold ring. The woman complained: "I have enough jewelry, why do I need to buy these things? When my friend Xiaolan celebrated her birthday, her husband gave her 999 roses. How romantic." The husband thought that gold rings were more affordable.

Such men often make a mistake. They think that women can just buy them whatever they want. In fact, even in families with a modest income, women are often pleasantly surprised by their favorite small gifts such as roses, not to mention families whose material needs have been met. "Affordable" items such as "gold rings" are obviously It is even less able to arouse women's excitement. What they need is something that brings them spiritual satisfaction.

Some men are popular because they know how to arouse women. Such men sometimes make women feel slightly angry and dumbfounded, but then they also make women laugh out loud and feel elated. When a woman says "you are so bad" to such a man, she is actually secretly happy.