Women are usually emotional. The image of a man who loved her will not change in her mind. He will not grow old or change his heart. So whenever a woman encounters difficulties in her real love life, she will miss those old lovers.

Japan's private detective agency provides a service, which is "finding first love", and 90% of its customers are women. It can be seen that women care about their old lovers far more than men do. Why do women miss their old lovers? Why would you want to call them?

One of the reasons: I thought of him by chance, and his phone number was easily found.

29-year-old An Lin returned to her hometown town for official duties. Passing by the gate of her alma mater middle school, those familiar sights and smells reminded her of her middle school days and first boyfriend. The innocent love affair of the past aroused her infinite emotion. Out of nostalgia for the good past and curiosity to know whether her former lover was safe, she got the boy's phone number from her mother and dialed him. phone number. They had dinner together and recalled the good memories together.

Benefits: It satisfies his curiosity and vanity, because he still remembers the past events many years ago.

Disadvantages: This kind of reunion is enough once, don't abuse it. Otherwise, even the good memories will be hard to keep. In fact, everyone knows in their hearts: everything in the past will never come back.

The second reason: because he once said that you can dial his mobile phone number at any time if you want.

36-year-old Xiaowei recalled: I initiated the breakup with him, and he was very sad. The last time we met, he burst into tears. It was very heartbreaking for a grown man to cry like this. He said that I was a pain in his heart forever. But he understood my determination, because he really couldn't give me the happiness I expected. He said that I could dial his mobile number anytime, anywhere if I wanted to. Every Christmas after that, I would call him, feeling guilty that I had hurt a heart that loved me so much.

Benefits: In men’s tears, women’s vanity is satisfied. Comforting a broken heart is something all women want to do.

The Bad: Men are much more forgetful and vindictive than we give them credit for. When the pain in his heart subsides, your image and status in his mind will completely change. When you are still calling him with an apologetic and caring tone, he may be muttering in his heart: This woman is annoying enough, and she always doesn't know the correct position she is in.

Reason 3: A woman calls her old lover to invite him to her birthday party.

Excuses. A woman hopes to see her old lover again, but dating alone will make her feel awkward, and she doesn’t know whether the other person is willing to accept such a date, so she is willing to use gatherings on some important anniversaries as an excuse to let her old lover appear with everyone. 32-year-old Mary invited her old lover to attend on her birthday. But among her group of relatives and friends, his appearance seemed very sudden. He didn't know who to talk to, so he stood alone in the corner. A very awkward reunion.

Benefits: It satisfies the woman’s vanity and he is still willing to accept our invitation.

The bad: Apparently he started to regret coming to the party. He won't accept your invitation so easily next time.

Reason 4: Breaking up is helpless.

Why do we still separate in the end even though we clearly love each other? This relationship is an eternal pain in the woman's heart. She believes that he is the most suitable person for her in the world. Now that the objective environment has changed, can we start over?

Charlene, 27, recalled: The days with him were the happiest times in my life. After him, I had never met another man who could make me so happy. I called him but he never answered.

Benefits: Women can think that he refuses to answer our calls because he is still grieving for the lost love, and he does not have the courage to face us again and lose us again.

Thinking this way can satisfy a woman’s vanity.

Disadvantages: Life is cruel. Our wishes often go unfulfilled. He ruthlessly declined our requests to meet.