When many people mention their first sexual life, the topic will always focus on women, but they seldom mention or avoid talking about a man’s first sexual life. However, a survey found that many men's first sexual life mostly ends in failure. Some people even think that the first sexual life failure is due to lack of ability. But in fact, it is normal for men to fail in sexual intercourse for the first time.

Is it because most men’s first sexual intercourse ends in failure because of lack of ability?

Men will be more nervous when they have real contact with the opposite sex for the first time. In a nervous state, two completely different results are likely to occur. One is that the attention is too concentrated, the nervous system is over-excited, and semen is ejaculated directly without starting. Another type is that due to being too excited and inexperienced, the penis cannot erect and the sexual life ends in failure.

Generally, the failure of men's sexual life for the first time does not mean that their sexual ability is not good. As the frequency of sexual intercourse increases in the later period, understanding of sexual knowledge will make them relax, and their sexual life will become better every time.

What preparations should men make for their first sexual intercourse?

1. Relax and don’t be too nervous

Most men's failure in sexual intercourse for the first time is related to nervousness, so before intercourse, you should relax yourself, don't be too nervous, and don't have too good imaginations about sexual life. After all, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment. Relax and let nature take its course. Communication with each other will make things happen naturally and increase the success rate.

2. Do a good job of hygiene

Both parties need to clean their genitals before and after sexual intercourse to avoid bacterial attachment, which may cause cross-infection and inflammation. Be careful not to urinate immediately after sex, as the organs are congested after sex. Urinating causes increased pressure in the urethra, allowing urine to flow backwards.

3. Wear condoms

Condoms can prevent diseases and pregnancy to a certain extent. The first time most men have sex is not after marriage, so wearing condoms to prevent accidents can reduce harm and allow each other to enjoy and relax more. Invest with confidence.

4. Pay attention to the rhythm

Most men are very nervous when having sex for the first time. If the movement range is large, the muscles will tighten, which will lead to failure. So slow, non-rude behavior can prevent each other from getting hurt.

Warm reminder, if men want to bring a wonderful experience to their first sexual life, they must make relevant preparations. At the same time, they should pay attention to the sexual life environment and decorate the room in a romantic and emotional way to get each other into the state faster. If you are accidentally injured during sex, you should stop in time. If it is serious, you need to seek medical treatment in time. Don't delay because you feel it is difficult to talk about it. This will affect your sexual ability because you miss the best time for treatment.