I am a girl who has just worked for a year. A few months ago, I met my current boyfriend, an ordinary company employee. He is three or four years older than me and has had several relationships before me. According to him, I am his fifth girlfriend. Of course, he also said that he hopes I can be his last.

Not long after we fell in love, I had sex with him under his strong request. That time, when he found out that I was still a virgin, he was so happy that he was almost crazy. He hugged me and said a lot of love words to me, which made me feel a little numb. However, girls still feel quite comfortable with these words. Sweet-talking.

He told me that he was a wounded man. His four previous girlfriends were all heartless women. After dating for a period of time, they all secretly found new lovers. Therefore, there was a time when he Women have no confidence and feel that women are hypocritical animals with no innocence at all. It wasn't until he met me that he discovered that there were girls as beautiful as me in this world. He vowed to cherish me and make me the happiest woman.

Of course I was very moved, but besides being moved, I also found it difficult to accept many of his ways of doing things. One of his biggest problems is that he loves to tell people around him that I am a virgin. Even if I were around, he would talk about this issue to his buddies without any thought. I just felt blushing and being judged like an object.

I knew he was proud, but he never considered my feelings. I also told him about this problem, but he said that he had no other intentions because his previous girlfriends were not virgins when they fell in love with him, so he was deeply honored to have a virgin like me. Let me not think too much.

In addition, I feel that it is difficult for me to communicate with him. He always only looks at external characteristics when looking at people. Every time he talks about a person, what he introduces is always the appearance of the person, and it is difficult for him to pay attention to the personality. He also told me that looking at someone for a long time will cause aesthetic fatigue, but I don’t understand: doesn’t it mean that the longer we stay together, the more dependent we will become on each other?

This year, we talked about getting married. . He always says that he is older and has reached the age of marriage. But I said that with his current financial strength, it is impossible for my parents to accept my marriage to him. I asked him to work harder and save some money for marriage in a year or two, so that he could win the favor of my parents. But he said that there was no need to go to such trouble. He wanted me to get pregnant before we were married, and then we would marry him when I got pregnant. Even if my parents didn’t agree, I would have to agree!

I really felt discouraged to be with him. At this time, I seem to be able to realize: why his previous girlfriends left him one by one...

But what about me? What should I do? Should I leave him far away like them? ?

Analysis: After reading your story, I really feel that this man may not be the kind of man that a woman ideally wants to be able to bring her happiness throughout her life. He likes to show off, is not deep enough, is not motivated, and likes to be clever when he meets him... There are many men like this in the world. Of course, when women meet them, they must keep one thing in mind: make good plans for their future!

It is an indisputable fact that men value virginity, but if a man values ​​his virginity to the point of showing it off to others, it can only mean one problem: This man's mentality is really immature.

When you are in love with such a man, you have to be careful that your words and deeds in the future must conform to his standards, because if there is a slight deviation, he will think that you have "learned bad things" and that you have become a slut from a virgin. !After all, many men who get a virgin have this mentality: after getting a woman's first night, he will be happy, and then he will regard this woman as his personal belongings. He does not want others to covet him, he hopes to monopolize her Everything, only this, he felt that this love was perfect, and this woman truly belonged to him.

As for your boyfriend, the most troublesome thing is probably his "little cleverness". A man who can say such things as "forcing his son to marry" has lost three points of responsibility in the first place. He is not willing to pass. You will achieve your goal on the right path. If you are with such a man, you will inevitably have to worry about life in the future! Men who like to play tricks are often clever but are misled by their cleverness. When you are with him, you must at least keep your own navigation mark and do not waver with him. Xihuang, otherwise, in the end, you are guaranteed to be dragged into the water by him.

To put it bluntly, it is better to be considerate of a man who has been repeatedly abandoned by women. After all, women are not naturally ruthless and will not be easily betrayed until their hearts are broken.

You ask: Should I stay far away from him?

This is not necessarily the case. However, don’t tell yourself “I won’t marry him unless I am”!

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