Why do men like lovers? What are they thinking about?
Yes, every man needs a mistress. This issue has nothing to do with morals and ethics, it has to do with whether men tell the truth, so don’t rush to scold (if you are a woman), and don’t rush to clap (if you are a man), just don’t evade this issue publicly. So why do men behave like this? Please see [Scientific Exploration] Revealed?
Women need to tolerate men’s ideas
Revealed!
Picasso had a mistress, Clinton had a mistress, and Tang Bohu had other mistresses besides Qiuxiang. All accomplished men have mistresses. Can a woman call her husband unachievable? I happen to know a few friends who have mistresses, and I asked them what are the benefits of mistresses? Based on their opinions, we found that mistresses have several qualities that attract men:
1. The mistress is not annoyed.
After a man finishes his work, he is afraid of having to endure his wife's troubles when he gets home. As for annoying mistresses, it’s not like there are no mistresses, but my friend said, oh, then we don’t call them mistresses, we call them little wives.
——It’s strange that after a woman comes home from work, she likes to ask her husband questions.
They don’t need a husband who won’t annoy them? And if the husband is quieter, the woman will say, "What bad thing did you do?"
2. A mistress makes a man always feel in love.
For example, a mistress will not be like a wife, who has plastic wrap on her face (the woman says it is a beauty mask), wears a sportswear she left over from college, and sits next to a man watching boring TV series. The mistress will have put on plastic wrap, cucumbers, and any fruit you can think of before the man comes back, then puts on the man's favorite transparent underwear, rents sexy DVDs, and waits for the man to come back and watch them together.
——It’s strange. If a man comes home and shaves, takes a shower, puts on neat pajamas, and watches "Eighteen Moves of Iijima Love", and kindly asks his wife to watch it with him, his wife will frown and say, you’re late at night Why are you shaving? Watch porn again, go and help with the laundry.
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3. The mistress only has one man in her mind (I agree, maybe pretend, but at least pretend), and everything is based on the man’s opinion.
The man said, it looks like it will rain tomorrow. No matter if the TV just reports that it will be cloudless tomorrow and the probability of rain is zero, the mistress will respond accordingly and say, well, it will be cooler if it rains a little.
——It’s strange that my wife only has one man, but she has a completely different way of treating this only man. For example, when her husband first gets excited, she will say, Oops, did you sign your son’s homework book?
4. Although this is a small thing, it is absolutely important.
The mistress won't say, it's your turn to wash the dishes. I wouldn’t say, let’s pay the electricity bill on the way to work tomorrow. Not to mention, you threw your smelly socks on the sofa again. The mistress can't say anything, she can only say, are you hungry?
——It’s strange that my wife always complains that she is worse than a maid at home, but she always requires, or at least expects, her husband to be proactive and hard-working in housework, and never complain about hard work.
5. When the mistress gets the money given to her by the man, she will give her a kiss and a grateful expression; as for the wife, she will say, hey, why is there less than five hundred yuan? You set up an ambush again, right?
——What’s even weirder is that my wife has an unusual feeling about men’s wallets. She always makes men wonder whether women’s requirements for management are to put their husbands first and then their wallets, or first their wallets and then their husbands?
The above is just a brief list of five points, I think it is enough. I understand that when men tell the truth, the consequences will usually be tragic, but I still risk my life to tell the truth for men. Of course you (if you happen to be women) will first snort with your nostrils and say, Crazy, how can there be such a mistress in the world? Men will fantasize.
The thoughts hidden in a man’s heart
When love actually involves pots, pans, oil, salt, sauce, and vinegar, all the shortcomings between you will burst out in an instant, and the man will begin to complain in his heart. Let’s take a look at the “irrational thoughts” hidden in men’s hearts:
When love actually involves pots, pans, oil, salt, sauce, and vinegar, all the shortcomings between you will burst out in an instant, and the man will begin to complain in his heart. Let’s take a look at the “irrational thoughts” hidden in men’s hearts:
1. The more a woman loves, the braver a man becomes.
A man does not refuse to fulfill his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how intoxicated his wife is in the happiness of living with him, he will do his best for his family and his wife without hesitation. Sacrifice everything. On the contrary, if a man is not sure about his family and women's feelings or even has unnecessary worries, he will behave like a scoundrel. When it comes to matters related to family and their women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life can bring to a woman is to be a wife."
2. Have a broad mind and truly understand men's shortcomings and faults.
Men value their families and women far more than women imagine. They are always accustomed to treating their families and women as a safe haven and comfort zone. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and welcome them back with open arms at any time.
3. Women must be hygienic and clean.
Although they themselves are lazy and dirty, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet and is indifferent to a chaotic home. Because they think that their family and their women are their true faces.
4. Men need the status of being the head of the family.
Women always like to argue with men about the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence anything. In fact, what men want is just a status. How can they take the initiative to take on the responsibility of buying vegetables and washing dishes if they are so lazy? It's like in a country with a constitutional monarchy, the prime minister decides everything, but the dignity and majesty of the king cannot be ignored.
5. Men are afraid of loneliness.
Psychologically speaking, men are animals that are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. The reason single men go out for a drink every night or sleep over at a friend's house is not because they like drinking or are very close to their friends. The real reason why they go out is because they are afraid of being alone. So married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel isolated and lonely. So when men lose track of their women or they come home late or even not at all, they become as frightened as a naked nun in a busy city.
6. Don’t expect a man’s family to be the same on the outside.
Women often complain that men are two different people at home. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but like a tyrant to me? Why can't he be nice to me too? In fact, women don’t have to worry about this. Because politeness has always been a social need, and being too polite is harmful to the family. When a man behaves very politely to a woman, it can only mean that he has lost his love for her or has done something sorry for her.
7. Women should not confront a man tit for tat when he is angry.
The pressure and hardships that men endure in society are something that women cannot experience, and they are likely to take this bad mood home with them. Therefore, men often pick on women for no reason or lose their temper at them. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but they are just venting their frustration. At this time, men need women's understanding and acceptance most, and women need to pay a very unfair price. Tit-for-tat quarrels undoubtedly add fuel to the fire for men.
8. Men also have jealousy.
Men are no less jealous than women, and they often fight for their lives. Far more men die under the swords of love rivals in duels than women who are jealous and tear themselves apart. If a woman really loves her man, she should try to understand the man's mentality mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and treat the man's suspicion and speculation carefully. Taking the initiative to explain the reasons and process of interacting with other men is not only a true understanding and concern for one's own man, but also a way for women to supervise their own words and deeds.
9. Don’t talk nonsense at home.
Family scandals should not be made public. The right and wrong at home are inherently unclear matters. If gossip from the outside is added to the mix, a man's self-esteem will completely collapse. At that time, even if a man wants to reconcile, he will be unable to get off. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only option is to discuss it slowly behind closed doors. Because the principle of housekeeping for men is.
10. Don’t compare your husband and family with others.
In the eyes of men, it is a serious betrayal of a woman to compare her man and family with others. It is impossible for them to understand a woman's original intentions and wishes in good faith, and they will only subjectively think that the woman is picking on them to express their dissatisfaction. They will also ruthlessly think, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?
To be considerate of a man is to treat him as your lover, lover, brother, friend, father, and child. Love him, don't burden him, give him freedom, and give yourself freedom. You need to know when to advance and when to retreat. When should you stand in front of him; when should you hide behind him. Love him as yourself and fulfill his happiness, and then he will fulfill your happiness.