There were no invitations, no wedding candy, no banquets, not even blessings from relatives and friends around - only two marriage certificates that took more than ten minutes to exchange for at the civil affairs department. Many citizens of Jinan have just walked in such a hurry and become a hidden marriage tribe.

The hidden marriage tribe is also called "pseudo single". Usually refers to those people who have completed the legal procedures for marriage but still conceal the fact that they are married in public and appear single. The controversy surrounding "King of Heaven" Andy Lau's hidden marriage has put the topic of hidden marriage on the agenda again, and it has become a hot topic. People suddenly realized that although not everyone can be the "King of Heaven", everyone can be a member of the hidden marriage family.

Hidden marriage saves gifts and makes socializing easier

“I think the hidden marriage life I chose is still very good!” I have been a hidden married person for four years. Ms. Song said that from her hometown in Jinan, she later chose to work outside the city. At that time, she felt that holding a wedding was too troublesome, so she only received the marriage certificate in Jinan without any ceremony. "When I went to work in other places, I still worked as a single person. , I didn’t entertain my colleagues. Until now, many relatives and friends have always thought that I am still unmarried.”

People who have hidden marriages usually feel that holding a wedding is a waste of time and money. Therefore, they only apply for a marriage certificate and authenticate their marriage through legal channels.

In the eyes of many people who have hidden marriages, concealing the reality of marriage can make their social life simpler. Once someone else sends a wedding invitation, there will be no complaints if you don't attend. "When I got married, I didn't accept gifts from everyone; now that others are getting married, I don't need to give gifts to others." Mr. Wang, who is also a member of the hidden marriage family, said. Hidden marriages provide convenience for work

Of course, there are also many people who have hidden marriages who say that they have been hiding their marriages out of helplessness. Nowadays, when many company leaders hire employees, they always stipulate that they are unmarried. "These senior officials always believe that although young people are very motivated, once they are burdened by marriage, many people's work ability will decline." Many people who live in secret marriages complain that it is this idea that makes many people choose Hidden marriage, "Once white-collar women get married, their leaders will worry that they will get pregnant and have children, which will affect their work. Once elite men get married, their top management will worry that they will reduce their social activities and be passive in their work. This forces us to hide it and forget about it." ”

In places where white-collar workers gather in Jinan, there are often the largest number of hidden marriages. Many white-collar workers who are secretly married use the protective cloak of "pseudo-singleness" to carefully protect their jobs and prevent them from being abandoned by senior executives.

Hidden marriage, continue to enjoy the fun of being single

It is undeniable that there are also many people who have hidden marriages who want to hide the reality of their marriages in order to continue to enjoy the various pleasures of being single.

“Think about it, if all your friends knew you were married, who would ask you to go out to a disco, have dinner, or sing KTV all night long?” Netizens confessed in the post, "The reason why we are getting married in secret is that during the process of 'marriage', we can continue to maintain the living conditions of young people and continue the happiness of being single!"

Hidden marriage is also May become a "public nuisance"

Many people say that being single is a "public nuisance", but don't they know that hidden marriage may also become a "public nuisance".

Some citizens said that they had experienced embarrassing situations of falling in love with "hidden marriage people". "I thought he had always been unmarried, so I finally plucked up the courage to confess. I never expected that he has been married for three or four years. It was really a shock." Some netizens cried online and complained that they had fallen in love with the person next to them. Hidden marriage tribe, in the end, it was all in vain.

Some citizens said that if people with hidden marriages hide themselves too deeply, they will cause trouble to the people around them. "The unmarried men and women around them are likely to develop feelings of attachment and slowly fall into this unintentional setting. 'This is a trap, but it is harmful to unmarried men and women."

Sooner or later, marriage will come to the "sunshine"

Many people in hidden marriages still say that this has already happened. The status of marriage can be hidden for a while, but it cannot be hidden forever. As you grow older and your marriage continues, there will likely come a time when your feelings will come to light. "Many people who have hidden marriages still want to have children. Once they have children, they will definitely not be able to hide it." Some people who have hidden marriages said, "In fact, many of the common behaviors of people with hidden marriages will make themselves known to those around them. People recognized it. Slowly, we walked out of hiding into the sunshine. However, this is a state of life. Before we walked into the sunshine, we continued to hide."

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