Why do high-quality men always meet low-quality women?
"A good man doesn't have a good wife, and an ugly man marries a beautiful woman." This kind of thing is not uncommon. Handsome boys often find girls around them who are not very satisfactory in appearance, while ugly men often find beauties in their arms. Why is there such a big contrast?
1. Beautiful women are lazy and delicate, ugly women are diligent and family-oriented
Beautiful women are often petite, lazy and stay-at-home, and they can also spend money. Although beautiful and delicious, they often cannot provide men with much career or family help. "Excessive" beauty may even make men suspicious and jealous, which is very disturbing; and those ugly women, although God has given them They are not very attractive on the outside, but they are very beautiful and kind on the inside. They can "walk in the hall and cook in the kitchen", which will give men a lot of support and help, and can also make men feel at ease. And quite a few men, especially traditional men, tend to be very rational. They don't care about beauty and sexiness. In their eyes, finding a beautiful vase with the same decoration is far worse than finding a smart and capable ugly girl. "Affordable".
2. Beautiful men are arrogant, ugly men sincerely understand love
Objectively analyze men, "ugly men" and "handsome men". Handsome men are born to be beautiful and ruffian, and have been criticized since childhood. He is sought after by others and held in the palm of his hand by the opposite sex, so he is somewhat arrogant and does not know how to cherish, consider, understand and tolerate the other person, and does not know how to listen to women's voices. Then, such a man, Apart from being good-looking, what else is there for? Ugly men are not. Although they are not good-looking, they can be sincere. They often know how to love the women around them, know how to take the initiative to care and condolences to the opposite sex, and they also know how to put themselves in the other person’s shoes. , In this way, it will naturally be favored by girls. In this case, as long as you are nice to her and trustworthy, the beautiful girl will also be moved by it.
3. Beautiful women are condescending while ugly women seize the opportunity
Beautiful women are often simple, and they also have the "emperor's daughter has no worries about marrying", so naturally they will not actively and deliberately pursue others, nor will they take the initiative to pursue others. They will not pay too much attention to the presence of handsome guys, let alone pay attention to an irrelevant man; no matter how naturally beautiful they are, they will also be shy, so their way of expressing love is more tactful and profound, while silly men I don't have too many illusions, so I don't dare to think narcissistically that she will be attracted to him. In this way, handsome men will often slip away from me, and give those ugly women a golden opportunity.
4. Beautiful men fall because of love, and ugly men rise up because of love
Because handsome men often start from junior high school and puberty, and they start to always be accompanied by beautiful women because of their appearance. In this way, it will inevitably lead to Their focus turns to their emotions; but those ugly men have a much "cleaner" surrounding and no distracting thoughts in their hearts, so they turn their focus to their studies and careers, just to get ahead, and it will not be too late to find a lovely wife by then. Therefore, among successful people, there are very few handsome ones. Basically, they are all "ugly men." Factual observation and statistics are undeniable. That is, those rich people who own houses, cars, and even worth over 100 million are all "ugly men." Most of them are men, and the handsome ones basically have mediocre careers. So what about today's women? Especially beautiful women, pampering has become a habit, which is also very realistic. They hope that they will have no worries about food and clothing in the future, so they change from pursuing "Prince Charming" to relying on "Prince BMW".
5. Beautiful men are afraid of rejection and therefore miss opportunities
Once a woman is too beautiful, no matter in appearance or figure, no matter inside or outside, from beginning to end, she will be as pure and pure as a flower. The lotus flower that has not yet bloomed gives people the impression that it can be viewed from a distance but not played with. Those handsome men, because they have been "spoiled" since childhood, often rarely suffer the blow of broken love, or some men have only dumped people and have no experience of being dumped; so once they meet a beautiful woman, they often dare not approach her , because they always overestimate the "strength" of the other party, so they are afraid that the other party will refuse casually and make themselves lose face, or some are arrogant and never take the initiative to "pursue". So, they lost their opportunity.
6. Ugly men have no scruples but can hug beautiful women
Some ugly men who are "embattled on all sides" have no hope anyway. In short, whoever they pursue has a high chance of failure. It's better to "fight to the death". In this way, they will take the initiative to get close to beautiful women; and those beautiful women who are empty around them are often very simple. Ugly men also have attractions and strengths that make her happy. In addition, they love her very much, so they die. How could the beautiful woman not give in to her pursuit of pestering and beating indiscriminately?
However, although "a good man has no good wife", this also proves that God will still be as fair as possible. Otherwise, if all men are matched with beautiful women, and ugly men are matched with ugly women, then wouldn't our descendants have to Have you hated us all your life?
Actually, families can have any kind of parents, so there is no need to pursue external things too much, as long as they feel comfortable with each other. There is a saying that goes well: It’s not that you are bad or that I am bad, it’s that we are not suitable.
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