After consulting and communicating for more than a month, 27-year-old Xiao Wu finally walked into the clinic and received a simple facial plastic surgery, and will undergo the May Day holiday in one month from now. Get married during this period.

Xiao Wu is a very ordinary girl, no different from other girls who come for plastic surgery and care for beauty. The only difference is that she hesitated and finally chose to enter my clinic, not just for beauty, or Beauty is for marriage: My fiancé is from Beijing and he thinks Xiao Wu’s face is not beautiful enough. Xiao Wu, who has graduated from college for more than three years, is actually not ugly, but in order to marry a good man who owns a house and is a native of Beijing, she chose to respect his opinions and conditions.

Xiao Wu is not the first girl I have seen who changed her appearance based on a specific practical purpose. I don’t want to talk about Xiao Wu’s motivations and purposes anymore. Nowadays, most girls have certain requirements when getting married. The most economical requirement is that the man owns a house and a car. If a man wants to get married without a house, his nature is no less than seeking fish by chance. How can it be so difficult to describe it? As far as I know, this situation is also normal in Korea. One thing that Korean unmarried women often say nowadays is, "If a man owns a house, any shortcomings can be forgiven." I couldn't help but be surprised. This sentence can be put another way, that is, you are marrying his house instead of his person.

Many women say that a house is the guarantee of love and marriage. Without a house, much passion will be wasted in the high mortgage loan. You only have a home when you have a house. If you don't have a house, your heart will always be wandering and unsettled. They say, doesn’t a woman get married just to have a family? We can see how important a house is to many women.

This is a helpless reality.

Contrary to the attitude of women who don’t care about the person when marrying a house, men prefer that women look at him as a person rather than his house. Many male netizens are dissatisfied with women becoming more and more realistic. Most of them believe that a girl with real connotation and cultivation should see the other person's character, potential and the possibility of working hard together with you when getting married, instead of focusing on wealth and house. The house is something external to the body. If the relationship between two people cannot even work together, then it is not a pure relationship at its core and is not worth holding on to and cherishing. Some netizens even wrote articles saying that "girls forced to live in a house" should be thrown away like garbage.

A house is the guarantee of marriage and the lubricant of love. For young lovers who have just stepped out of school, the first thing they encounter when entering society is the high housing prices, followed by decoration, children's schooling, physical therapy insurance, and support for the elderly... Survival is not easy for people under layers of pressure. Do you still have the energy and mood to taste the taste of love? The helpless reality forces many people to accept and succumb to reality. Many people simply choose to survive and marry into a house. It is easier than marrying into a life where they will be saddled with a heavy mortgage loan. As for love, it is more like a rose. It blooms the most beautiful and colorful flowers for a period of time, but one day it withers. By then, how many people will remember its former beauty? It's not as real as your own house. Houses can indeed make us feel more stable and happy. Imagine how happy it will be to decorate your own small home with romance and warmth at the beginning of your marriage, and how happy you will be in it.

However, the root of this happiness is still the deep feelings that the two people have. The role of the house is more of an icing on the cake, rather than the key to success or failure.

After all, the object of marriage is a person and a social relationship, not a dead house. We can imagine a situation, that is, as the Korean unmarried woman said, what would happen if a woman marries a person full of shortcomings for the sake of a house. Marriage is not a momentary game. In many cases, it is a person's lifelong choice. If the other party is full of shortcomings that don't appeal to you, you won't be interested in living a daily life with him, and you won't be able to raise eyebrows together, let alone work together. We can almost predict that the previous shortcomings will gradually be magnified in the future dull and boring life. Marrying for a house definitely does not mean ease for a woman.

The reason why marrying a house or marrying a person has become an issue is because the seriousness of marriage has collapsed in our society today. As we all know, marriage is originally a serious but warm ceremony. The reason why marriages abroad are conducted by priests in churches is to swear one's loyalty and steadfastness to the gods. In our country, you have to worship heaven and earth first before it can count. This serious form has become a weight to make life easier in today's situation where housing prices are high and life is difficult. Moreover, the proliferation of mistresses and mistresses and the increasing number of divorces have also put people's trust in marriage in crisis. For most people, marriage is just a formality. "If it's not suitable, the worst possible outcome is divorce." Many people have the idea.

Marriage used to be based on feelings, but the house is an out-and-out material foundation. A marriage full of daily necessities cannot be separated from the material foundation. It cannot be far away from reality and be high in the spiritual world. However, when marriage only exists because of material things, it will become dry and stiff. People living in it will face endless boredom and emptiness in addition to being boring.

House and love are another fish-and-bear-paw problem. Being able to have both your cake and eat it too is certainly what each of us hopes for. However, now is an era when it is difficult to have your cake and eat it too. Whether marrying to a house or marrying a person, different people have different choices. However, we still want to believe that true love can withstand the test of reality.

Obviously, men who own houses are now in hot demand. However, whether a woman should give her lifetime happiness to a good man or a good house is actually a question that no one can give the best answer to, because the answer lies in everyone's heart, but each answer may be different. . All I can say is that it is most reasonable to make choices according to your own wishes and make whatever choices you think will make you happier.

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