Many people say that love lies in the process, not the result. The question is, if you rob someone for a long time and get back a "half a man" that is in pieces or with the head and tail cut off, will you really have the satisfaction of triumph? Will you feel at ease? A man with a criminal record has a burden. Men, the old divorce between Wang Gang and Cheng Fangyuan was reportedly triggered by him sending money to his daughter from his ex-wife...

Generally speaking, women have a weakness: they tend to snap up purchases, steal the spotlight, and use strong words to reason. Wait, now there is also "stealing men".

In the past, women had only two verbs to choose from in their emotional lives: waiting and seducing. The latter, in particular, is slightly more positive, but still pejorative. Now, women are beginning to learn to pursue their own happiness, but some people have gone to the other extreme: robbing men! In broad daylight.

Why are women obsessed with robbing men of pleasure?

If you are unfortunate or lucky enough to love a man who has another woman or women, whether it is a wife, fiancée or girlfriend, please don’t even think about it. Meet them and talk or compete. There is no need. Leave immediately! Because what you grab is just a "gasp", not necessarily a real good thing!

1. Habitual "grabbing" Writer

I have a female friend "Liu" who recently read a best-selling book "Win" written by a foreigner. She excitedly talked to me on the phone about her thoughts after reading it. It's rare for her to have such leisurely leisure. In the past, she usually called me to scold men or ask for help or scold men. Because I am her good friend, I try my best to fulfill her wishes and be her emotional trash can; however, when calling me for help, I Sometimes it's difficult to deal with. There are often resentful women who bring men to her house to "seek justice." The reason is always the same, and she "inadvertently" steals other people's men.

Not long ago, Liu had another dispute with a group of women: the male protagonist is a handsome and wealthy gold-collar man. At first, Liu had a crush on him because of business contacts, but after learning that he was married, he took the initiative to break up with him. idea. However, one day, when she happened to encounter the scene of the man having an affair with an unmarried woman in a bar, she felt an inexplicable passion well up in her heart: He can associate with other women, why can't I? Since he is already bad. If it's just a corner, then let him rot completely. As a result, she accidentally started an affair with the man. It wasn't until Valentine's Day when several related women got into a fight that Ms. Liu suddenly realized that it was really not fun to fight for men with others. She often lost her wife and lost the army. It was not worth it. What made her even more sad was that , the playboy man in the vortex actually ran away with a sneer. There were several cabinets of useless clothes in Liu's single apartment, which she had bought during different festivals. During a sleepless night, she packed up all the clothes and donated them to the disaster-stricken areas after the typhoon... By the way, Throw away all the photos of men who were snatched and escaped in the past.

Keyword 1: The influence of the general environment.

Xiu Xiu, female, associate professor: In fact, I have also experienced the misunderstanding of "robbing people". The reason should be found in the social environment. You see, impetuousness spreads everywhere, talking about interests There are more people talking about right and wrong, and there are fewer people talking about right and wrong. Everyone is pursuing results and rarely reflecting on it. Is all this right? "Winning" is the last word and the most important thing, so some people even commit suicide by jumping off the building just because they lost in a game of cards. !

Keyword 2: Herd mentality.

Wang Qing, female, junior: My roommates all like to "get together". Three of the sisters are in love, but they all seem to have disputes. The cause is actually a fight between several girls. You can often see people queuing up on the street, and the queue is spectacular. Almost all of the people in the queue are women. Some people don't know why they are queuing up. It would be better if they could "jump in line". Once, when I got to the end of the queue, I learned that I was getting a boring psychological questionnaire: When you go home and enter the door, do you take off your left shoes first or the right ones?

Keyword 3: No one knows how Go kick a dead dog.

Dou Ya, female, makeup artist: There is nothing wrong with "stealing" men. Only good things will be taken away. Get it first and then talk about it. Love is a kind of high consumption, and "peak man" is a famous brand. In the business era, we all believe in personal efforts, no pain, no gain.

Keyword 4: Women make things difficult for women.

Ms. Li: I was once a victim of the "man-grabbing war". My ex-boyfriend was snatched away and changed hands several times. There is always some kind of natural jealousy among women. One person cannot always take good things alone, so they are mentally unbalanced and then reach out to grab them. There is some element of mischief here to disrupt the situation, but I don’t even know it. Both jade and stone will be destroyed, and we will not hesitate to do so.

3. Love is encountered

Many people say that love lies in the process, not the result. The question is, if you rob someone for a long time and get back a "half a man" that is in pieces or with the head and tail cut off, will you really have the satisfaction of triumph? Will you feel at ease? A man with a criminal record has a burden. Man, the old divorce between Wang Gang and Cheng Fangyuan was reportedly triggered by him sending money to his daughter from his ex-wife... What's more, if you are faced with a man who robbed you, you must be mentally prepared: Can you accept a man with a history? If he wants to be divided and moved around to find balance among different women, can you accept such an impure and complicated man calmly and as usual?

Li Xiang's marriage to the wealthy businessman Li Houlin was a shocking event. At least three women with surnames came out and cried unbearably, saying that Xiang Xiang had robbed her man. However, Xiang Xiang always said eloquently that she and her husband were very close. Loving and stable relationships, but avoid talking about the issue of "robbing". Obviously, she is fed up with this. People's hearts are the same. I don't believe that Miss Li won't feel a little uneasy and flustered when she acted like a baby in her husband's arms. Is their final divorce related to this?< /p>

A certain talented woman from Phoenix TV also hooked up with a young husband. It is said that when the IT hero divorced his ex-wife, her ex-wife was still breastfeeding their son who was waiting to be fed... People will habitually sympathize with the weak and then ignore them. Blame the newlyweds who are currently happy indiscriminately. I believe that the newcomers in the examples given will feel aggrieved and "I did nothing wrong." The question is, when the newcomers laugh, will the noise and the tears of the old ones affect their enjoyment? Maybe there are some inexplicable reasons. Guilt and irritability? Such a state of mind can actually seriously compromise your current happiness.

When you rob, you are often emotional and irrational, so you may look at the wrong person and rob for the sake of grabbing, but forget to evaluate what is good about him? Is he suitable? Once you grab it, be prepared to immerse yourself in it. When you come from hard-to-find prey, you may find that it is just a bunch of luxuries that you cannot use! In the field of love, it also depends on factors such as fate and personal preferences. You can only meet a beautiful man if you can't find him. You can get a beautiful man without snatching him. Maybe you can "win", but you may not be able to "get"!

More importantly, there is no sense of security. A woman is particularly wary of her husband's female secretary, because she herself became his wife from a female secretary. Therefore, even if you "rob" this man, you will naturally wonder: Will he be snatched away by others again?

In the world of love, there are also ecological rules of the jungle and the strong. Being able to rob him means that you have the ability. Ability, but it does not necessarily prove that you have grabbed happiness. Let yourself be outstanding anytime and anywhere, be beautiful anytime and anywhere, master first-hand information anytime and anywhere, stand out and encounter love anytime and anywhere. It is far easier and more objective and reliable than snatching it.

It is said that the writer Bing Xin once said to Tie Ning, who was still single at the time: Men are waiting. Love cannot be snatched, love can only be encountered.

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