17-year-old Lingling is a sophomore in high school. She has been nervous about things since she was a child, especially Fear of physical exams. I remember when I was in the first grade of junior high school, the school organized girls to go to the hospital for a physical check-up. She was diagnosed with "tachycardia" by the doctor because she was overly nervous. From then on, she was extremely nervous every time she checked her body, and each time she got more nervous, so she couldn't pass the test every time. She said that for some reason she was afraid when she saw doctors, that they would look at her in an improper way, so her heart jumped involuntarily. Later, it developed to the point of avoiding going to the hospital and avoiding physical examinations. Lingling studies very hard and hopes to be admitted to university. But when I think about having another physical examination, I feel nervous and trembling. She once asked many classmates whether they were also nervous when checking their bodies. The classmates said they were not nervous. A female classmate made a joke, are you afraid of finding out you are not a virgin? Although the doctor confirmed that she was indeed a virgin every time she had a physical examination, Lingling was still afraid of physical examinations. And this fear has reached an unimaginable level, and she doesn't know what to do. Her parents were helpless and accompanied her to find a psychiatrist. Expert comments——Girls are afraid of body examinations. This is because virgins are afraid of naked bodies. They are afraid of naked bodies and are also afraid of sexual contact. This is The "forbidden instinct" of a virgin. Psychologist Freud said in the article "The Taboo of Virgins": "Virgins are afraid of danger, which must involve a kind of contradictory emotions." This kind of "ambivalent emotions" is manifested in that virgins are yearning for and afraid of sexual contact; the more they think about it, the more they think about it. The more afraid you are, the more afraid you are, the more you think about it. The intensification of this conflicting emotion is a sense of danger and fear. Regarding the nature of this sense of danger and fear, Freud said: "They cannot tell whether it is mental - imaginary danger; or real - actual danger." Facts have proved that virgins have a sense of danger and fear. , most of them come from one's own spirit - the result of imagination, which is delusion. The "virgin taboo" means that others cannot touch her body. Touching is a kind of contact, and watching is also a kind of contact. From a psychological point of view, hands and eyes are quasi-sexual organs, so a virgin is afraid of the opposite sex touching or staring at her naked body. Psychological analysis shows that girls’ shyness comes from their resistance to sexual development. As the body changes toward maturity, they are always pathologically timid and afraid of people observing their secondary sexual characteristics. Virgins also refuse to take off their clothes in front of women. They can never forget the shock of being seen naked. This is why most young girls are afraid of stripping off for physical examination. Neurosis is always a strong delusion resulting from strong inner stimulation. Virgins will have delusions when stimulated, and all neuroses are symptoms of being controlled and tortured by delusions. Virgins have a tight defense against their "virginity" being violated. This is women's deepest hidden worry. This worry will continue until after marriage. Freud said: "After analyzing many unhappy marriages, we find that the motives that drive a woman who has lost her virginity (because of marriage) to take revenge (on her husband) have not disappeared from the minds of civilized women. Nowadays, many women are indifferent to the man's passion from beginning to end in their first marriage, and finally get divorced; however, once they remarry, the situation suddenly changes, and the original gloomy situation is undoubtedly gone. The adverse reactions disappeared with the end of the first union. "It should be pointed out that it is normal to reveal virginity taboos, giving people a sense of pure virginity; but some girls are overly sensitive and take the taboos to the extreme. This is nerves. disease. The way to overcome this symptom is to treat your body correctly and understand the taboos of virginity correctly. With understanding, what she recognized lost its mystery and threat. Virgins will no longer be afraid of physical examinations.

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