Recently, the term "girly man" has quietly become popular, which generally refers to a man whose appearance, temperament, personality, and behavior are somewhat feminine. Li Junji, Zai Zai, Xiao Shenyang, Chen Kun, Hu Bing, Tony Leung... these handsome boys with feminine temperament are all dubbed "girly boys".

Of course, there are also "girly" men among ordinary people. They are shy, careful, pay attention to dressing, are keen on skin care, and like concave shapes (as the name suggests, according to the concave-convex theory of yin and yang, "concave" shapes Refers to the shape with feminine beauty)...Why are they so girly? < /p>

I don’t think I’m a sissy, even though I’m very handsome and stylish, haha. I think my dress is very good, people say I am a trendy person. Just because I'm at the forefront of fashion and trends, you can't just call me "girly", right?

2. My wife likes that I am clean, elegant and tasteful

Appearance: Peter Character description: Use men’s perfume, practice yoga to lose weight

My wife and I went to report At yoga class, she didn’t like my belly, so I had to lose it. I really wonder why most men are unwilling to learn yoga. My figure has been much better recently and my skin has become fairer. My wife said that if I continue to be handsome like this, I could even meet a talent scout on the road!

Interpretation: "Vase-type" sissy boys

Psychological androgyny has long become a new trend in the development of gender roles. Many developmental psychologists believe that such rigidly defined gender role standards are unhelpful because they limit the behavior of both genders.

Nowadays, aesthetics are diversified, and the androgynous trend is popular. People have begun to appreciate male lust, and like the kind of beautiful, feminine and melancholic men. Therefore, some men deliberately tend to be feminine, and the outstanding expression is bright, delicate and feminine. Concave shape. Men with a flower vase type have a very healthy inner understanding of their own gender, there is no alienation, and they can also play the role of husband very well.

3. In fact, we are very fragile and need the rescue of "angels"

Appearance: Little H Character description: melancholy eyes, a little twisted when walking

My favorite I hate people saying I have a feminine look. When I was a child, I lived at my grandma's house and mixed with a large group of cousins. We always imitated female models and walked in catwalks. Later, I couldn't correct my walking. When I grew up, I faced ridicule from everyone, and I was very autistic for a time. Fortunately, a girl changed me. Although she is two years younger than me, she has a maternal glow about her. She never laughs at my walking style, and even if I shed tears, she will not think that I am weak or incompetent. With her encouragement, I raised funds to set up a small company. The company was on the right track, and "Angel" and I entered into a happy marriage.

4. We love cleanliness, and we are affectionate

Appearance: Big Man Character description: I have mysophobia, and I am petty.

My wife often says that although I am tall and thick, But he is a particularly "girly" man. I inherited my mother's mysophobia and I like to do housework very much. I have to wash the dishes five times before I stop. I take off my clothes and throw them into the washing machine immediately. Of course, I don't think this is a shortcoming. My shortcoming is that I am petty and jealous.

Interpretation: A powerful girly boy

Children’s “gender awareness” of themselves begins to gradually increase when they are four years old, so the childhood growth environment is closely related to men’s gender identity. If boys live in a single-parent family or grow up among girls, most of them will have misunderstandings about their gender. As a result, their speech and behavior will have traces of femininity, which conflicts with people's social role expectations for men. This kind of conflict usually causes the parties to have an inferiority complex, be sensitive and fragile, and be sentimental. Faced with this vulnerability, if his wife can give him more tolerance, understanding and support, he will gradually build up his self-confidence, his masculine character will gradually become more obvious, and he will become stronger and brighter.

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5. The more you become a girl, the more you reduce stress

Appearance: Jim Character description: Very narcissistic, he wants to do a SPA for his skin every once in a while, and likes to be a female celebrity

Beauty experts say, Men's skin is more prone to problems than women's, so it needs more delicate care. I like to go to a SPA at home every once in a while to cleanse my skin and soothe my body and mind. I have a headache at work, so I also like to be a prostitute. This is called the stress-reducing method in psychology. It is said that many men in Japan are keen on becoming a prostitute to reduce stress.

6. I am my wife’s “best friend”

Appearance: An An Character description: I like to read colorful fashion magazines and know how to match clothes without any teacher

My wife likes to spend money together with me. Shopping with me is better than going shopping with those best friends. Firstly, because I have good physical strength and can help her carry big and small bags; secondly, because I have good aesthetics, the clothes I help her check out are often the most cost-effective, beautiful and hundreds of thousands of dollars. It goes well with my wife's temperament.

Interpretation: Both internal and external sissy boys

Most of these sissy boys have very good appearance conditions. Their impressive looks allow them to be endowed with feminine qualities as they grow up. Role play expectations. Compared with the powerful girly boys who are both beautiful and spiritual, the girly boys who are good both internally and externally have less inferiority complex. They can often adapt to the situation and become naturally beautiful. Although the gender stereotypes of this type of effeminate men, that is, what a man should wear, what he should do, and what personality he should have, are not very clear, in essence, they still recognize their male biological sex and social gender. . In addition to playing the role of husband in a marriage, this kind of sissy man is often his wife's part-time best friend. If the wife doesn't mind his sissy taste and can tolerate his super narcissism, the marriage will not be too big. The problem.

7, "Mother" is very distressed

Appearance: Asai Character description: Habitually curled orchid fingernails, done nails

Many people don't like me and say that I am a "transsexual". Only I know that I am just a relatively deep-seated masculine man. In my heart, I long for love, but every time I fall in love, I can't achieve success. On a blind date, a girl said to me: "I really want to chop off your orchid fingers!" I was very hurt at the time. After that time, I found that I began to have sexual fantasies about having sex with men. I'm very scared of this!

8. Women treat me as their best friend, and men treat me as their buddy

Appearance: Xiao Kun Character description: permed eyelashes, thin voice, timid

Although I had a good position in the family business, my marital issues were not easy to resolve. Women treat me as their best friend, and men treat me as their buddy—I don’t even think I have any hope of being gay. Sometimes I feel that I am too girly, but there is no way I can refuse to like those earrings, lipsticks, skirts and other accessories with feminine labels. The girliness seems to have seeped into my blood!

Interpretation: Hard-core sissy man

A hard-core sissy man does not have a very clear understanding of his own gender, so he naturally has female thinking and behavior patterns. If this lack of clarity develops seriously, it will force them to break away from the category of effeminate men, enter the ranks of "transsexuality", and suffer from "gender identity disorder", that is, subconsciously, they hate their own gender and believe that they have fallen into the wrong gender. In the body, there is a desire to change gender.

Even if such a sissy man gets married, he often cannot play the role of husband and father well. As wives, they should consciously let them make friends with some sunny men who have successful careers and happy families, so as to establish their identification with the male gender and then imitate them, which will have good results. When necessary, seek interventional treatment from a psychologist.

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