Why are men always the ones who cheat?
After entering the siege of marriage, the two people changed from a life where they only need to talk about love to a marriage where they need to be busy with life. The most important thing in marriage is loyalty, but many people are unable to do so, cannot bear the temptation of the outside world, and eventually cheat. Men have become the main force in cheating. Of course, there are also women. Generally speaking, there are more men. Why is it always the man who cheats in a relationship? Let us find out next.
Why do men always cheat in relationships between the sexes?
1. Loss of freshness
When we first started dating, you were a noble goddess in his eyes, with many advantages, and he couldn't stop loving you. After being in a relationship for a long time and entering into a marriage, shortcomings will slowly emerge. If you stay with one person for a long time, you will lose the sense of freshness and you will not be able to resist the temptation of the outside world and choose the path of cheating. There is a saying that makes perfect sense. After eating delicacies from the mountains and seas for a long time, you still want to try the side dishes on the roadside. In fact, this kind of behavior is irresponsible. If everyone cheats because there is no novelty, how can the stability of marriage start? This is clearly a character problem.
2. Escape from life
Some people live a happier life, while some people live a harder life, running around for a living every day. In addition, there are so many trivial things in the family, which makes people have headaches just thinking about it. In order to escape this unsatisfactory life, some men throw themselves into other people's tender homes and betray their wives. If you cheat for this reason, there will be no good results, because changing to another woman will not change the current life situation, and temporary escape will not solve the problem. When this man and his cheating partner fall into the trivialities of life again , will cheat again.
3. Frequent quarrels
It is very normal for couples to have conflicts. After all, upper teeth and lower teeth often fight. However, it is extremely irresponsible to choose to love others because of the quarrel. If there are conflicts between husband and wife, they should concentrate on resolving the conflicts. If they just avoid it blindly, it will make both of them very tired. There are also some couples who choose to use a cold war to force each other to commit a crime. This is a very stupid way of communication. If there is a conflict, it must be resolved in time, rather than choosing to cheat to escape. There is no doubt that the cheating party made a mistake, but the other party also has a certain responsibility. Frequent quarrels will rapidly consume the relationship, and it is only a matter of time before it falls apart.
It is wrong for a man to cheat, and there is no way to explain or whitewash him. However, problems in marriage are a matter of two people, and women should also look for the reasons from themselves. It is also necessary to carefully consider whether a man should be forgiven for cheating, and do not act impulsively.