Why 80% of women regret marrying
Life is a process of continuously displaying advantages and exposure. But the problem is: two people who have lived together for a long time often see each other's shortcomings but fail to see each other's advantages.
I recently read a survey: About 80% of women will regret marrying their current husband.
Many people said: How surprised!
In fact, there is no need to be surprised. This is normal. I even suspect that the other 20% of women who insist that they married without regrets are just trying to save face and refuse to say they regret it! It is normal for a woman to regret marrying.
Yes, if you marry a rich man, maybe he is not gentle enough. Marry a gentle man, maybe he doesn't have the courage. Marry a strong man, maybe he has no interest. Therefore, getting married is a big problem for women. No matter whether they marry well or not, in the end, most people will cry and say: I regret marrying you!
This is a common mentality of women. , before getting married, everyone thinks that the person around them can definitely bring them a happy life; after getting married, everyone definitely realizes that the unhappiness of their lives is entirely due to the person around them!
< p>All because, life is a process of constantly showing advantages and exposing shortcomings. But the problem is: two people who have lived together for a long time often see each other's shortcomings but fail to see each other's advantages.Before getting married, a woman is used to looking at the good, and the small advantages of this man can satisfy her. After getting married, a woman’s heart begins to become wider and wider. She always feels that her things must be better than everyone else’s. As time goes by, she becomes tired and her demands become higher. She feels regretful for marrying this man!
The human heart is not enough for a snake to swallow an elephant. This is the greed in human nature. Just like the fisherman's wife in the fairy tale, she has lived in a magnificent palace and been the supreme queen, but she is still not satisfied...
Of course, many women who regret after getting married will get divorced. Then marry again, then regret it, and then divorce... Usually, a woman who has been married twice has the most uncomfortable life in her life. She compares every day: How is the first one better than the second one? The second one is better than the first one. How?
After comparing and comparing, I can only come to the most regretful conclusion: I might as well have made do with the first one!
Women are too thoughtful, and people who are too thoughtful will always live their lives worrying about gains and losses. As a woman, it is normal for you to regret marrying, but regretting marriage does not mean that you married poorly! After all, the man next to you is not a djinn and cannot satisfy all your pursuits!
Women can Life raises higher demands, but don’t have infinitely high expectations for marriage!
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