The word "temptation" has three meanings: first, it means using means to make people confused and do bad things; second, it means attracting and attracting; third, it means tending to achieve certain derogatory purposes and methods that are not honorable. Therefore, rationally speaking, this temptation is usually a situation where you should refuse but cannot make up your mind to say "no".

But from the perspective of the party who generates the temptation, that is, the person who has consciously used some means, or used some methods and methods to actively implement it. There are also certain objective reasons for people who possess certain characteristics or conditions to display themselves in a "peacock-spreading" style, thereby generating some kind of attraction or attraction. As for the person being tempted, there are also those who can't stand the teasing and are tempted, and there are also those who can't resist the natural attraction of others and lean in to treat them, or even commit themselves to them. But the temptation or being tempted often have something in common, that is, to seduce others and want to achieve some goals. The reason why the person being tempted also wants to achieve some goals, and only when he has an intention will he carry out the temptation. Only when you have ideas can you be tempted by others. When we weigh the moral standards of temptation and being tempted, we only need to consider whether the respective purposes are legitimate. The relationship between temptation and being tempted often seems to be active and passive, but this is mostly the situation when entering the state, but once entering the state, who is active and who is passive can be transformed. Because the temptation itself may have a confusing quality. If you lie to people and say that there are fish to eat, but when they start drooling and there are no fish, they will definitely want to settle the score with you. If you steal something and someone discovers it, you trick someone into sharing the stolen goods with you, and they end up taking the lion's share of it, and conflicts will arise. Put this way, the truth is very simple.

Married men are naturally devalued in the eyes of ordinary unmarried women. Why? Because of the word "self", no matter how good others are, it can only be the scenery outside of you. Many unmarried women are in a hurry to find their own destiny, so how can they have the pleasure of looking at the scenery? In other words, you don’t need to buy a ticket for this scenery. If you have nothing to do, you can just stop by and see it. But if you have to spend money to buy a ticket, just save it! Married men, because of the word "has", seem to have a strict separation from the word "wei" used by unmarried women. Those who are separated by mountains and ridges will not kiss each other. Even well water and river water do not conflict with each other. Women want to "hate to meet each other before they are married", and men also "hate to meet each other before they are married". This is the highest state that can be achieved by immersing yourself in the scenery.

Once upon a time, the married man and the unmarried woman saw each other as more than just scenery. Is it that unmarried women are no longer satisfied with the scenery of married men, or that married men are no longer satisfied with the scenery of unmarried women, or both? I think the answer is definitely both. Because married men who specialize in seducing unmarried women seem to be able to prove their mature charm, and their success can even be measured by their attraction to unmarried women. However, the most difficult to control is the desire for sex among married men. It is difficult for them to remain married and polite in front of their unmarried women. The unmarried women believe that the unmarried women in the age of women are the most resourceful, and these qualities can be used in exchange for the rich things of married men. As long as she takes advantage of her beauty and youth to defeat the man's mask, even defeat the marriage castle, and get what they want from the married man. Such as marriage, money, power, status, etc.

What are the things that can tempt an unmarried woman? I think it is nothing more than the following: First, the charm of maturity, because maturity also means the possession or control of certain resources. For example, the right to speak in social situations, the sophistication of social work experience, and the breadth or effectiveness of interpersonal relationships, etc. This is a soft power that ordinary butter niche students don’t have yet. Second, the economic conditions are relatively superior. Generally speaking, many middle-aged men have accumulated good financial conditions and have begun to enter the best state in terms of career development, or have achieved a certain degree of success. At least, many middle-aged men own houses, cars, savings, and even their own companies. Third, middle-aged men have a sense of superiority in social status. Middle-aged men have begun to have a certain status in society. The fourth is character charm. Middle-aged men have experienced more and more things, and they have a more mature view on things in the world. If they are masters of hunting, they will naturally understand the affairs of men and women, especially they know the supply and demand best. . If they want to take the initiative to seduce an unmarried woman, they should be able to do so easily. Therefore, the destructive power of this kind of temptation is only because the unmarried woman who is tempted has the mentality and desire to be tempted. Because supply and demand cannot simply be identified as the supply and demand relationship of a certain product, it may also be the exchange of supplies, forming a bilateral supply and demand relationship.

What kind of temptation can an unmarried woman have on a married man? I think everyone will understand this temptation without analyzing it. That is, the charm of youthful appearance and the vitality of youth. For a philandering man, not only is his wife no longer a novelty at home, but also because his wife takes care of the house and gives birth to children, his body shape changes, his appearance gradually fades, and some of them have even become "yellow-faced women". Faced with an unmarried woman who is full of youthful vigor, young and beautiful, or even dressed in fashionable and bold clothes, how many men who have the heart, courage, and talent to refuse the love in front of them would actually refuse? If the unmarried woman in front of him still feels like he is late for meeting him, or actively pursues her, then how many married men are not "would rather die under a flower than be a ghost" in front of a beautiful woman? ? In addition, there are some men who deliberately want to eat young grass and change their wives. Even if they can't change their wives, they still want to hide their wives in a golden house? If an unmarried woman takes the initiative in front of a married man, takes the initiative to tease the man, and even aspires to be a "mistress" and achieves good results, then the married man will most likely be obsessed with his lust when facing the unmarried woman. , but fell into the unmarried woman’s trick. Understand the psychological needs of unmarried women. Many men who do not have the advantages resort to fiction and create illusions to make unmarried women fall prey to them.

According to statistics from relevant departments, the divorce rate in large and medium-sized cities in China has been increasing in recent years, especially in Shanghai, Shenzhen, Beijing, Guangzhou and other places. The main reason for the increase in divorce rate is extramarital affairs, and in extramarital affairs, There is a considerable proportion of family disintegration caused by the entanglement between married men and unmarried women, and the involvement of "mistresses" is also the hottest topic nowadays. Therefore, the fragility of marriage and family itself also indicates a high probability of reorganization. It is not difficult for married men to realize their desire to start over and eat young grass. It is also very possible for contemporary "mistresses" to become full-time and upgrade, and occupy the magpie's nest. If a married man and an unmarried woman seduce and are seduced for reasons other than the purpose of marriage, usually it is the woman who seduces the married man for money, profit, and opportunities for personal development. Married men are mostly attracted by sex. For survival and development, women must rely on men's strength. Men take money to do things for sex, and both parties have a tacit understanding and each takes what they need. This shows that women can easily understand the resource characteristics of their own beauty and youth. In other words, married men and unmarried women, the original "well water" must be specially "river water". This does not mean that the emotions between men and women can break through all barriers, but it only means that desire bursts the embankment, and its momentum is like a flood, and it will inevitably fall with mud and sand. . In fact, it doesn’t matter who seduces whom, a married man or an unmarried woman. What matters is, when we express our desires, who else will adhere to our spiritual character and take into account moral constraints? If this kind of temptation changes from an individual phenomenon to a universal phenomenon among groups, does it mean the decline of human nature?

We know that compared with spiritual desires, natural material desires and sexual desires are easier to generate and externalize, because spiritual desires must be actively pursued and persisted by people with considerable qualities and spiritual character. And to express natural desire, or libido, a lower animal can do it! It's too easy to express animal sexual desires at will, as long as you don't think of yourself as a human being. But in fact, when unmarried women and married men engage in temptation, they often think that if they don’t do this, life is not worth living, because in their only rationality, they think that living like an animal is the only way to live back to their true nature! If a married man and an unmarried woman break through the barriers and help each other because of their true feelings and like-minded interests, it will really be looked down upon. But the sad fact is that emotions are often just a "fig leaf" that is too broken to be broken. In their hands, they can cover it up and down, but nothing can be covered!

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